Friend died?

Question

7 months ago 1 of my friends died an i sitll cant get into it. ive still got rip on me name for msn still got book thing from funeral


i knew him since he was like 4 an he died wen he was 12 nearly 13 what can i do??

Answer 1

There really isn't anything you can do I'm affraid. Losing people we love is very hard. It will never get easier. Nor will you ever forget about your friend, and you shouldn't. You're mourning and there is nothing wrong with that. As long as you're still doing what you need to do, there is nothing wrong with how you're feeling. I keep all my "book things" from friends and family that I have lost. You'll be ok, I promise. I'm sorry for your loss

Answer 2

You need to talk to your parents and look into grief counseling. You are not alone in this. I have just lost the man I wanted to spend my life with. There are a lot of different stages of grief-you deny what has happened,you feel guilty for still being alive and doing the things they can no longer do,you get angry at them,angry at fate,angry at God(if you believe)...you go thru days of depression where you just cry and want to hide...you even feel bad if you laugh and have a good time-like you are not being faithful or feeling bad enough because you lost them. You have to give yourself time and let yourself know that all of these emotions you are feeling are a natural part of the grieving process. Talking to someone is very good therapy-and yes it is ok to have conversations with your lost friend if that helps you. Please seek support and help-do not try to go thru this by yourself.

Answer 3

You can not to anything you need time my cousin she was more a friend and she died and I still can't get over it I am waiting to see her to open the door and come in but then I realize that she would never do it that because she is not here fiscally but she is here in my hard I would never forget her but she would never wanted me to moor her everyday and not to enjoy my life If she was here she would tell me that. So you friend he doesn't want to see you like that and try to do something for yourself or try to help others and with their happiness you feel better...

Answer 4

I know what you are suffering, cause my dear grandma died one year ago and I felt quite painful. But time will change everything, and i believe that your friends wouldn't hope to see you keep sad anymore. Try to walk away from the shadow of deaths my friend, and let your friend alive in your heart!
And be happy everyday when you stay with your family and friends!
Best wishes for you!

Answer 5

Well he was your bestfriend so of course its hard for you. But just be at peace that he is in a better place and that he probably doesn't want you to be down that he is gone. Everyone has to go one time or another. It was his time. You have to move on and do what you are here for then one day you will meet up with him again. He's okay.

Answer 6

Hi there. am sorry to hear about the loss. but to be honest your friend is with you as we speak. he is watching over you. he would want you to move on but always keep him in your heart. he also wants you to know he loves you. it's ok to cry when you feel down and out about him and when you miss him. and he wont be mad. but he cant rest in peaice until you let him go. and he is ready to go to the other side. he is always going to be near you. no matter what. but its time for him to go to the light and meet up with the ones he lost before he had passed. do you see what im saying. i mean do you understand. its ok to miss him plant a tree in your yard and make it for you to talk to and tell him everything that is going on. or write in a diary to him say dear so and so and write like as if he is really here. he knows what you do every day how you feel he sees it. you cant see him but he sees you.



good luck

Answer 7

You can do nothing. Birth and death,sickness and getting old are still beyond the control of humans. You should realize this and should reconcile to the sad event.Concentrate on your studies and rise to great heights. This will give immense pleasure to your departed friend, where ever he happens to be. Time now to forget him.

Answer 8

i know for a fact that it's hard to get over it.
one thing that will be able for you to get over it is to know if he got the salvation which Jesus is offering.
if he did, then, ask for the Lord to give you peace of mind & comfort since your friend is already with our loving Father.
there's no crying, no pain, no worries now in the place where your friend is if he did accept Jesus as Lord & Savior.
he don't want to see you like that, he wants you to be happy,
he wants you to know that he dont want you acting like that, he misses you so much more than you do.
lay your worries to God & He will carry it for you.

Answer 9

You never for get him,just remember the good times you both spend together.Best try remove things that keeps you reminding you of him. I lost my brother love him dearly, got to the point i took pictures put them away,seeing them make me cry all time.

Answer 10

im really sorry for your loss...i know it's hard...i lost someone really close to me not so long ago. I know it's hard, but you can't torture yourself with this. you have to learn to let the pain go- realize he is in a better place-he's happy, safe, and with God. It's not easy, but i promise in time things will get easier.