my mom doesnt seem to realaise that i need a bra and im to embarassed to ask because we arnt very close, but i also dont want to go and buy one because then she could notice and its also embarrassing to buy them yourself.... im like the only girl in seventh grade without one and i really need one....please help!
2007-10-19 20:07:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I understand I was embarrassed to tell my mom I needed a bra but there know other way just take her in private and casually ask if you and her could go to mall to buy you a bra. She had a first bra once to...I'm sure she will understand.
2007-10-19 20:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seventh grade??? I was practically forced to start wearing one when I was in 4th grade. Definitely ask your mom. It may be embarassing, but she's probably equally embarassed to bring it up herself. And a minute or two of embarassment is a lot better than the long term embarassment of having your breasts dangling about and nipples showing through your shirt. Also, if you go too long without a support garment then you'll get stretch marks, and it really isn't healthy for your breasts. I bet it hurts or at least feels uncomfortable to run or jump or anything like that without one. You need to ask your mom. If you can't do it face to face, write her a note, or an e-mail or something, and tell her that you were embarassed to bring it up face to face. Who knows. Might even bring you guys closer
2007-10-19 20:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by i_come_from_under_the_hill 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you aren't close to your mom because you don't live with her, it might be easier for you to ask a close girlfriend and her mom to shop with you. If you go to a nice department store, even to WalMart, you can ask a saleslady to help you. First you want to be prepared though. Get a cloth type tape measure (you can find them in little sewing kits at a dollar store) and measure your rib cage around just below your breasts. Make a note of that number of inches (that is your size). Then measure around the fullest part of your bosom. Make a note of that measurement. It may be an inch or two or three more than your rib-cage measurement. The number of inches of difference will be the cup size - A, B, C, etc...
Then when you go in the store, look for bras with the size of the rib cage measurement for inches, and then for the cup size that looks appropriate. Take a variety of sizes into the trial booth, and try them on. Find the size that feels comfortable and gives you good support. Good luck!
If you live with your mom, it might be good to get a clothing catalog and look at it casually when she is nearby, and ask her at what age she started to wear a bra? or what does she think of this kind of bra for a first bra? or something like that. Maybe she is denying to herself that her little girl is growing up so fast...
2007-10-19 20:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 05:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! I was forced to wear one at the beginng of 4th grade.Tell ur mom how u feel and tell her u need a bra and then spend more time with ur mom so u get to be close and if u need anything u can ask her.
2007-10-19 20:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by zac_efron#1 fan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of asking for a bra, you could ask her what type of bra she thinks is best. Then she'll be thinking about bras in general and it might all click in her head that you are talking about you.
My girls are 4th and 5th grade and I know all of their friends have bras. I also know that if my 5th grader asked me about bras or tampons or deoderant, I'd want to educate her, not feel weird about it. That is a mom's job!
2007-10-23 08:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by rafdarrow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i bet you think someone seeing you with a tampon is embarassing too. just go get a bra youre a girl, girls wear bras its not embarassing
2007-10-19 20:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥I Was Undead Before It Was Cool 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask for some money and go buy one yourself if you are embarassed to ask. go shopping w/ a friend.
2007-10-19 20:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jack S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask. I'm not very close to my mother either but I when it comes to things I need to ask.... I ask.
2007-10-19 20:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Here's Johnny! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her or wear a really tight shirt around the house
2007-10-19 20:20:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋