Ladies, I know this sounds crazy, but I want a lower sex drive. My sex drive compared to my boyfriends is out of control. I can do it a few times a week, but him? Not so much. We haven't had sex in a month, and this has become the typical routine. Sex once every 4 or 5 weeks.
Generally after one session I'm set for a few days, but then I want it again, and when I don't get it I want it ALL the time. I hate having to try all the time, and I'm usually met with a "no." But my boyfriend means more to me than sex, so I want to know how I can lower my sex drive?
2007-10-19 17:25:20 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Self-control has nothing to do with it. I don't act on half of these impulses. Someone who has an eating problem can want to eat ALL the time, it's when they always cave in that they need self-control. If anything, I'm demonstrating self-control, and I'm trying to eliminate that basis of the problem.
2007-10-19 17:42:42 · update #1
I too have a very high sex drive, i like it nearly everyday and my boyfriend doesn't. I have found that by pleasing myself in between helps a great deal and dosen't effect our sex life in anyway.. Talk to your boyfriend if he is a caring loving man who is not insecure, he will not have a problem with you taking matters into your own hands and he may even be turned on by it and want more... self control has nothing to do with it you have your desires go with it...
2007-10-20 00:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Lower My Sex Drive
2016-12-17 18:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women do have a high sex drive . Do you have a job and work hard , or indulge in any sports ? A few times a week is nothing . Maybe your boyfriend has a very exacting job , that reduces his libido . A man with a low libido isn't really for you . I used to do it every night and morning when I was younger and I know couples who do it 3 times a day . I suggest you take up a vigorous sport , or buy a good vibrator and other sex toys .
2007-10-19 18:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I also have a sex drive problem but I think its more of a addiction. Like every night I have to master bate or I have major cravings the next day. If I see anything sexy all I want to do is master bate. I need to know hat I can do to lower my sex drive cuz its out of control. (if I master bate the night before I don t get horny until around 11pm)
(I m a guy)
2015-08-12 16:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jack Smith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to say i have this very same problem but its with my wife we used to do it at least three maybe four times a week which was great how ever after being married for two years and together 3 it has gone to about twice a month and i am finding that masterbating is not satisfying me like it use to. i love my wife very much and i think she still loves me how ever i wonder if she still desires me i desire her a lot but i hate feeling like this, this is becoming a big problemand any time i talk to her about it she just says she dont know and rolls over and sleeps i have tryed many things and cant get it resolved i fear that if things dont get better in this area i am going to go nuts. any advice is wlecomed and its is nice to know that i am not a lone on this i started thinking there was some thing wrong with me
2014-04-02 08:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Tony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to point out, there's 3 things that ruin marriages. How the money gets spent, who does the housework, and when to have sex. All three have to synch up.
If this is a serious relationship, you need to get him as interested in sex as he is. If it's NOT a serious relationship, why are you wasting your time?
2007-10-19 23:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-01 00:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by Baldwin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like many uf you have said its good to know im not the only one with this problem but lol i know my man is not cheating he has no time too and im pregnant im always horny but before i got pregnant i still always wanted it its just a little more now im 23 hes 28 so we do have some years in between but playing with myself doesnt do anything for me.....so i just try to find other things to do with my time when im not working and tending to my 5 yr old son......#Pregnant&Horny
2014-04-13 13:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Titanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why lower your sex drive?.......Just get yourself a nice set of vibrating dildos and be happy! In the meantime, this will take the pressure off him and will temporarily satisfy you until you get together again.
2007-10-19 18:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by PLISCO 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
how bout you talk to ur bf about this, and lower your drive for once every 2 weeks
2007-10-19 17:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋