i can pretty much have a good conversation with other people, but it doesnt work with her....
(she's bi, and im in the closet, but i think she knows i am since ive shown some hints)
i asked her out before. she said yes but never called. the date has passed, so i decided to be over her, but days later she approached me..she even opened up to me about her problems...but then we have nothing to talk about after...she never really asked questions (i didnt also coz i was always listening)...but she just stayed there despite the silence....
i dont know if i should invest emotionally for her...ive seen her with guys...i dont know...is this all worth it?
2007-10-19 16:23:36 · 13 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you will never if anything is worth it if you dont take the risk to find out. make that leap froggy!!!
2007-10-19 16:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by spades6784 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't dig to deep. Hey sounds like she's a person that likes to dominate the conversation with her issues. You are going through your own and you need an ear to listen to you. You can just let her know you have some issues you want to discuss with her if you feel comfortable or not.
2007-10-19 23:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by jae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...if you don't have anything to talk about besides her problems and you can not contribute to a conversation...then that's a Big Clue!!! Hello!!!!!!!! She just needs to be your friend. Find someone you can actually have an open ended conversation with, plz.
2007-10-19 23:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by Nemos Mom 2.2.10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if shes staying there even when nothing is being said means she wants to talk but she feels she cant do all the talking you need to come up with something to talk about what do you talk about in your other relationships?
2007-10-19 23:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find someone else-she may be bi but she doesn't feel that connection with you and you may just end up hurt. Find someone who will love you back!
2007-10-19 23:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by MAK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but im confused. Are you a guy or a girl? It would make easier to answer if i knew
2007-10-19 23:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to give it a try but keep your guard up just in case
2007-10-19 23:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by BILL 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
more than likely not, people who are 'bi' typically will only date people of the opposite sex...they are just slutty enough to sleep with anyone
2007-10-19 23:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. It is all about how you feel
2007-10-19 23:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by John 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is Grace and you are Will It will work if God wants it to be.
2007-10-19 23:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by Tigger 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋