is my girl friend pregnant or not?

Question

she's 3months and a week pregnant on friday(20th october)

ok ill get to the point on what am trying to say....

my girl friend has been having pains on her stomach, she's been getting this for few day's now and she was getting paranoid so she rang the doctors up they turn around and say she isn't registered at her doctors sergury... so i said whats there number and i'll speak to them, she wouldnt give me there number so bout few minutes later she rang me up saying the nurse has told her to come doctors today a.s.a.p so i went straight to her house , all worried and hoping there both ok so we can go to the doctors a.s.a.p but no! she told me she canceled the appointment

i just need to know if she's hiding something from me that she aint pregnant., her belly feel hard and has got a tad bigger but she doesnt look 3months and a week pregnant

eres pic of her belly

http://img502.imageshack.us/img502/2889/4848348177a5801270909loi8.jpg

could sum1 tell me if she's lying plz

Answer 1

sounds like she is defo hiding something but it may be that shes scared of the pains and is too scared to see her gp in case he tells her she's miscarrying.

most bumps dont become visible til about 5 months for first babies so dont read too much in that.

tell her that you are worried about the pains and you are taking her to the GP and go in with her. dont tell her you are suspicious of her as that will ruin your relationship if she does prove to be pregnant

Answer 2

Ha ha wow I am sorry this funny. You are 12 and you got a girl pregnant? Is this a joke?!?! I am sorry. A child is a blessing and all but you just screwed your life over. When you get older and all your friends are going out you will be staying home playing house. What you need to do is step up. If you are able to take your pants off and have sex with out thinking about the consequence then you are able to be prepared for the reality of what you just did. Tell your parents Be prepared for the worse Start making a plan Take parenting classes Be sportive of you soon to be babies mum Assuming you are going to keep it Having a abortion is your right and to choose so Though dis liked by GOD

Answer 3

Go to the store and buy a home pregnancy test. All she does is pee on it and it should tell you right away whether or not she's pregnant. Buy one yourself, hand it to her, and tell her to take it. Tell her you have to know NOW. If she refuses, walk out. She may just be wanting attention for some reason. If she truly believes she is pregnant then she will take the test to find out.

Ask her if she's had her period recently. Since women get them once a month, often the first sign of pregnancy is no period.

If she is pregnant, have her go to a planned parenthood or a doctors office to find out how far along she is and whether or not she is healthy. Begin preparing and saving up for your bundle or joy to come. This will change your life but please don't be a weiner and abandon your girlfriend. If you're man enough to do the deed then you are man enough to raise a child.

I don't know if she is pregnant. The only way she will know is if she takes a pregnancy test - either a home one (the urine test) or at a doctors office (often a blood test). Good luck and don't be scared.

Answer 4

Most woman dont start showing till 5 months gone, but however she could be hiding something or just rageing hormones, I would if I was you take the kind and gentle approach, tell her you love her and the baby and that you really want to be involved and support her when she has dr's appt's, midwife appt's, ultasound appt's. If she still refuses then you can let rip, she has got to be hiding something then otherwise I cant think why a woman would want to do this, my hubby was with me at every appointment, was amazed when he saw our son on the ultrasound screen, She cannot deny you that right if she is in fact pregnant and you are the father.
Good luck!!

Answer 5

I'm a little confused by your question, but here goes-

pregnant women act strangely. Don't get too excited about the recent events. Instead, ask to go along for her next appointment. Ask if there are any ultrasound pctures yet. Ask basic questions that any pregnant woman would be able to answer, like what hospital is she planning on giving birth at, what is her birth plan, etc.

If she can not or will not answer your questions or allow you to go along to the docs, ask her why she is being so difficult and secretive. Tell her it's your baby, too, and you want to be involved. Go from there. Good luck.

Oh, and different women gain weight during pregnancy differently. Only become concered if she's about 7 months and no belly.

Answer 6

Many women, especially in their first pregnancy, will not start showing at all until 5-6 months pregnant... So you shouldn't use the size of her stomach to determine if you think she is telling you the truth.

Has she had other symptoms? Were you two on the edge of breaking up before the "pregnancy?"

You should probably insist that you go to the doctor with her next time... It is also possible that she miscarried and is afraid to tell you...

Good luck!

Answer 7

First of all do you trust her and I mean trust. So given that I have been married for 12 years have three children and not one time did my wife have to even try to convince me she was pregnant.When there was a problem the Dr's were quick to resolve it and she never wanted to cancel any appts. Everything was out in the open and I just feel like she might be hideing something but, if not it's you'r baby and you need to get more answer's.

Answer 8

She is hiding something, I don't know what. But I would demand to go to the doctor with her. You are the father! Make her let to go to the next appointment. She should be going every month anyway. As far as looking pregnant, some women don't show until way later. SHe chances of losing the baby are really small after the 3rd month. Truthfully, I think you need to watch her. She is hiding something.

Answer 9

the best thing to do is a test, am now five months and have only just started showing everyone is different. She is acting a little odd but that could be for any reason so just talk to her and try not to get cross and shout as that will only make hold back more if there is something to tell you

Answer 10

I can understand your anxiousness but I don't think there is any way that any of us could tell you the answer. Looking at her picture is not helpful because we don't know what she is like normally and people don't normally show till 4 or 5 months with the first baby. her behaviour is definitely suspicious. All you can do is wait it out. Has she not had a scan?

Answer 11

Alot of times ecspecially with a first pregnacy women gets pains, it freaks them out, then they go away so they don't worry anymore. Also, you have to remember if she is pregnant her hormones are raging!

She looks normal for 3 months. Chances are she won't start to really show for another 2 months.

If you think she is lying, why don't you buy a pregnancy test, take it to her and see if she will take it.