Generally, some of the happiest partners are the ones that have a great, healthy sex life. Just don't mean the act of penetration. It's the overall connection they develop through great communication, intimacy, and openness.
I also believe if we make passion and intimacy a habit, make time for it even in the busiest of times, and the do the best we can even if we had like 10 minutes... Just a little romance can go a long way. Something done to surprise her...... something intense and spontaneous.... even something very playful.
What's your thoughts on how we can make passion an integral part of our lives??
2007-10-19 12:32:18 · 10 answers · asked by this_big_one_is_4u 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make it a priority, also, I think alot of people get intimacy confused with sex. There is ALOT more to intimacy than just sex. The connection, spending quality time together, and things of that nature are all ways of being intimate with your partner, like for my wife and I just sitting on the couch together and cuddling I find as an intimate time together, or if we play a board game together, because we are devoting time to each other.
Do those things and passion will come from those things, and also I believe that sex will come, but when being intimate with your spouse, DON'T expect sex to happen. Let it happen on it's own.
2007-10-19 14:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep a file on my computer of unusual ideas to spice things up and any time I have a thought i write it down for further reference. You have to be creative and not just do the normal stuff. Now I'm not talking sex here, I'm fun and adventure which are things that passionately and emotionally bond.
There are few things more arousing than being "partners in crime" for example. This can be added to the mundane day to day relationship things. Go to the movies like any other couple but smuggle daiquiris to drink while you watch. Or arrange to make love in an inspiring setting like by a river or on the beach. Things like that.
2007-10-19 19:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by Duck! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you love your partner with all your heart and soul and listen to them you will build such a fire. Problem is that we stop and think about the things we do and let them become bargaining tools in the relationship. Making that kind of passion in a relationship would be the presence of honesty, caring, compassion, love, trust and committment, and two people that were focused on their partners fulfillment as opposed to their own. Mix that with some open minded soul bearing devotion to your partner and that would be probably as close to a perfect world as we could make just short of the Second Coming of Jesus.
2007-10-20 03:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is cool to see guys like you are out there. In my opinion, the little things mean the most. Leave a note for her, surprise her in a different way, look her straight in the eyes while holding her face, thank her for something she did for you, compliment her in front of others, etc. Men forget that passion for women begins days before the actual act. If you rememeber to do things like this, you will always get passion from her.
Also there is a great book with 100 ideas in there for men along with how to really understand women. It is called, "If only he Knew". I wish every man read this.
2007-10-19 20:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ali Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right on target about that. I think couples should try alot harder than they are doing now days. I only get to see my man on the weekends right now but those weekends definitly make both of us content until the next time we are together again. Try harder people- you married your spouse for a very important reason.
2007-10-19 19:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by marcy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
passion comes from sincere and true love. honesty added.
if you have for someone, you dont need to think of ways to make it an integral part of lives. it appears as soon as you see your beloved. and being expressive is very important too
2007-10-20 09:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-10-20 04:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by ammarnasan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to prove to the women on a dating site that you are a sensitive man. Stop trying to pick women up on Yahoo answers. Pony up the money for a dating sight Mr. Big.
Good luck
2007-10-19 19:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can we make passion an integral part of our lives? By making it a priority......
2007-10-19 19:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just like you said....make it a habit.
2007-10-19 19:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋