I asked a question about suicide (long story, related to my depression) and a user said that I was faking the question because my avatar is smiling and that I have an account on 2 social websites, Myspace and Facebook. How the heck can someone judge another individual's life based on such little information? Why do people even make judgments over the internet anyways? Can't people go without judging other individuals? Anyone else have a stupid judgment story
2007-10-19 12:31:38 · 8 answers · asked by Tim Buck 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's not just the Internet, though. It's all over the world. People are judgers.
Sad, but true. People do it over the Internet especially, though, because they're protected in their little hole without their faces being scene and they become keyboard warriors and they think they are special.
I don't see what a smiling avatar, and 2 social websites have to do with depression. I think that the person who judged you isn't educated in depression to understand what you're feeling.
I also don't see what difference it makes if your question was fake or not. They can chose to answer or not.
I have found that I am truly disappointed in human kind. So many people are jerks. I just stick to the ones I can trust and embrace them and don't let go.
Screw the others.
2007-10-19 12:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by dancingirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MMM you rase to me a lot of questions aswell,..you ask I ask ok?
why do you have money under your avatar? ( money is the source to all evil when you only think in money.. so not good if you have a depression I suggest to change that
that you have two accounts doesnt say anything, only that you love to ''find'' out and talk unanamously , that ''they'' judge you based on a little information well thats what you give them so you cant blame them for doing so.. other wise you have to tell the full story all ins and outs (which is impossible) thats pc talk .. its how it is people judge by what you give them .. people have to judge because and only because it makes everything so much easyer , in a busy world like today it snaps time time is precious.. hope you got rid of ypur depression I had one years agoo now, it was a struggle a thing you have to do youreselve either fight or die .. and wouw am I glad I had that depression... what I know now I would have never had or investigate /question fight for without... so think for youreselve get your knowledge cos you are important.. knowledge is the key to everything dont let any one tell you that you cant .. and get youreselve into life! its so worth it! promiss you make an effort , lurn do some extreme to find your boundries but for all lurn as much you can , take up a copurse you interested in or what cathes your attention, after that you see a new way to get in with and so on, I went from a deep depression to what I do now Architect at uni.. some of my designs where printed and went to public shows(and thats only the beginning) and now I know I can do whatever I put my mind to its not easy but eh the biggest reward comes with a bit of serious work you woudnt want it if it wasnt..? so get out there my favorite quote is: TO BE OR NOT TO BE that says it all the sky is the limit make your own rules and dont let any one tell you you not good enough proof the opposite you worth it arnt you???
2007-10-19 19:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people just tell their opions without knowing all the information to begin with. its too easy. its also a cop out from lazy people with lazy minds. sorry your depressed as i know alot about it as i am bipolar myself for 20 yrs. thats why people never know when to take us seriously or not. the mood swings alone are enough to drive anyone crazy. hope you have a better life soon. good luck.
2007-10-19 19:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by elfgarden7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lest we forget!!
you can be any old asswhole you wanna be on the net.. even a judge.. the place is full of fakes.. unless you know the person, you should consider all of them zealots, freaks, *****, charletons, and liars, until you know different
2007-10-19 19:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by lugar t axhandle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone judges people including you. If you say you never judged anyone you are a liar.
2007-10-19 20:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by JustAnotherMarionette. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's easier than facing someone.
2007-10-19 19:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some ppl are just jacked up and have no life, forget them!!
2007-10-19 19:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not?
2007-10-19 19:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by wild boar 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋