Or when do you feel that you are in love? And when do you feel that you are out of love? Some times loves comes and goes are you supposed to feel love all day?Or the thought of it sometimes causes pain? Are these things that we all feel when we are in love? But most important when do you know that the other person loves you back? Are they supposed to tell you all day? Or show you? Or does this whole concept even have a reality?
2007-10-19 11:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
True love doesn't fade, it changes over the years.
I made my husband of 7 years & partner of 13 years laugh so hard he snorted yesterday. It was a simple little thing, but it surprised him (& me), and we had a great laugh.
The only way I've been able to tell that we have true love is the look in his eyes and the joy/peace/excitement/fulfillment I experience when I think about him and hold him tight. (Oh, plus he tells me every day that he loves me.)
2007-10-19 12:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You asked a loaded question. When you love a person it really doesn't fade. It just changes for example, when someone you love hurts you in some way or another. Love shouldn't ever cause pain but sometimes it does. It is hard to not have hurt when there are 2 different people with their own individual thoughts and feelings. That is why sometimes forgiving is important.
You know when someone loves you when they want you to be the best person you can be. They shouldn't try and change who you are at the core, but respect your differences. You still have to remain an individual while managing to be a couple.
They shouldn't have to tell you all the time that they love you, because over time actions speak louder than words. Keep in mind, the more you love and respect yourself first, the more you will be loved by others. Hope this helped.
2007-10-19 12:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by Ali Cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I beleive that only you could know if it is love or not, same goes for the falling out of love. No-one feels love all day, because if we did we would get nothing done. If thinking about it causes pain then you are already out of love. Love is not a straight road and we all experience pain, joy, compassion and committment. Knowing when the other party feels the same is a hard one to answer but again I think it comes back to compassion. I personally dont need to hear it all the time but it's nice when I do. Concept of love is also a hard one to answer, I guess it depends on how many times you've been hurt to say if the individual thinks it's a reality.
2007-10-19 12:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by FLIT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it depends. everyone has diffrente idea about the love. The world is changing all the time. So the love may change. We can say that the love fades. It is affected by many factors which involes the time, the environment and the roles in love. But i belive the true love. Because the true love will never end. I met a woman at millionairematch.com. She has a sympathized experience. Her husband passed away several years ago because of an accident. They were admired by their neighbors for their love before. She recovered from the big blow for a long time. She believes that the true love. And this is her precious experience. I have been touched by her action.
2007-10-19 23:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love to many people means many different things. When you first start in a relationship its all fireworks and heat! As the relationship moves on, the feeling is contentment and security(doesn't mean that there still isn't fireworks!). You know when the other person loves you back by the little thing that they do for you. Some people just don't like to talk about their feeling but rather show you how they feel.
2007-10-19 11:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by ms.toni67 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, love fades. Yes, you feel out of love. Sometimes you feel love all day. Love always causes pain. Yes, we feel thise things when we are in love. You can tell if the other person loves you back by his/her actions. I love you is a set of words. They can be said all day long. It is the action of the person that tells you whether he/she loves you or not. There is no reality in love.
2007-10-19 12:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe love isnt something u can calculate and put down on paper. Hell sometimes it isnt even a feeling at all, its more of an instinct. If you love someone you dont have to force it or even try at it. Love is infinite patience, understanding, support and un-dieing devotion. If you find yourself missing a your spouse even when shes only been gone for an hour, or constantly thinking of new ways to make him or her happy. If you always do things keeping your spouse in mind and keep him or her first in your actions then you have the building blocks of love. But love must be built, it doesnt come over night and true love only grows stronger.
2007-10-19 11:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have asked too many questions to answer at one time. So I will concentrate on the first question.
Love is like an organism. it needs attention and care in order to thrive. Also, a relationship is like anything else in life. There is a natural ebb and flow to things when time is involved.
What people discover who stick to their commitments through the good times and bad is that the bad times when passed really are a blessing is disguise.
Good luck.
2007-10-19 11:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love you feel at the moment, you feel it when you are with that someone, you tell them when you feel it, when he or she just pops in to your mind, give them a quick phone call let them know " I love you" and or " just thinking about you"
Love does not fade it just grows and grows.
2007-10-19 11:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by Marylou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that after you good through some hard times where its hard to forgive someone it does fade away somewhat.
2007-10-19 12:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋