I don't really think its a bad thing to be bi, but I'm geting kind of scared becasue I think I may be attracted to a few of my female friends, and I'm also attracted to guys. Sometimes its like....my chest hurts when I think I'll only ever be there friend. I don't know what to do, I want to be striaght, to not have to worry about it. I'm only 12 and I have an aunt who has a lesbian girlfriend, my family is non-religious but I'm not sure if this is a phaze, hormones or if I really do like girls and guys. I'm really confused and I'm not asking anyone I know for help becasue I don't want to riisk hurting our relationships or them telling someone else.
2007-10-19 10:52:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you *really* don't think there's anything bad about be bi-sexual, why does it scare you so??
If you are... then you are. Stop worry about it and don't define yourself simply by the gender of the people you're attracted to or who you choose to have sex with. I don't go around panicking because I'm *straight* ... your sexuality is only a small aspect of who you are.
2007-10-19 10:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u know what i hate??? i hate it when someone says that i'm 2 young, so i am not going 2 say that 2 u. i am not going 2 say it's just a phase bc that would be implying that u dont know urself. it's not just a phase and u r not 2 young. u feel what u feel. i think that u should give urself a few years just 2 make sure.never be afraid 2 experiment, but make sure u experiment w/ someone u can trust. dont get caught either.in my opinion, if u feel this way, i am going 2 say that u r bisexual.dont be scared, just be patient, u will realize ur true identity in time.
2007-10-19 12:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by cosmogurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Twelve's a bit early to be sure about sexual identity. Most people know for sure at 13, so wait till next year to try to pinpoint it. Though, there is a good chance that you'll realize you're not actually bi. The beginning of puberty sucks like that, what with all the RAGING hormones.
2007-10-19 11:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. D aka David 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here we go again with this label thing. It does not matter what you think you are. As long as you dont harm anyone do what you wish to do. I was having gay sex twice a week when I was 13 and I have been married for 50 years and brought up 4 kids. Am I straight, bi or homosexual who cares I just enjoy life as much as possible and so should you.
2007-10-19 11:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax and don't worry about what you might be or might not be. All these things are just labels and no one needs to fit into some label. Just be yourself and be happy. Yes, age and hormones can confuse you right now. So just sit back and don't worry about these things. Your life will be fine as you grow older.
2007-10-19 12:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to have feelings for your peers, be male or female....since you are exposed to relatives that are of that type you will feel that soreness in the pit of your stomach because of the unknown. And that is all it is, the unknown. Be open with your relatives, its not a risk to ask those that love you a questions that they alone can answer.
2007-10-19 11:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are 12. You are too young to be even considering this.
Have fun being a kid and stop worrying about it.
2007-10-19 11:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by nandina221 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's your choice. if you want to be bi then you can be. if you don't want to you don't have to be. there's nothing to be scared about. however, if your only twelve, you shouldn't even be thinking about things like that.
What is this world coming to?
2007-10-19 11:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ur only 12 so u have a while to get ur fellings right
2007-10-19 11:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by lost in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time . some of the painful feelings will smooth out later .
2007-10-19 14:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋