this happens to me all the time, i get really attached to certain people and i feel like i cant go on without them but if they lose interest in me then i feel really depressd please help me
2007-10-19 10:13:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
to a quirus person i am attached to females i am a female (i am not gay)
mainly teachers
because they admire me and compliment me
but when they stop i get depressed and feel like they lost insterest or "the fire has died"
2007-10-19 10:26:54 · update #1
Of all the people in the world, you are the only one who has decided that you will be obsessed with those people. You can decide to be one of those who doesn't care. Click.
2007-10-19 10:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Obsession and the resulting depression can be hard to deal with. I used to have issues with both, now I'm down to just depression. (Lucky Me).
What I did was have an old BBQ grill handy. Pictures of my obsessions were then placed in it. I would then tell my head, heart and soul, that this was the last time I would allow this obsession to rule my life. I'd shed a few tears if I felt the need to do so (I don't care what anyone says, crying is good, it's healthy). After a few minutes of telling myself that I was going to be OK, I would light the pictures on fire and let them burn; it was cleansing for me. I called it fire therapy. If you try this - as with any type of fire be safe about it - no lighter fluid or gasoline or anything falling into that category, pictures are paper; they'll burn with out the assistance of these things.
Good luck
2007-10-19 10:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by femalepit 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You need to address the underlying issues.
Seek assistance for this through a qualified, licensed therapist. Look in the phone book for mental health agencies in your area. They will be able to hook you up with the necessary support.
Good luck!
2007-10-19 10:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by paul_engleman 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Whenever you think of that thiing or person link ti with something you really dont like so you think of that as well.
It works for me when i get obsessed with things.
Good Luck
2007-10-19 10:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Agent 47 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be more specific.
Are your attachments to males or females?
What are their ages?
Why were you attached to them?
What was it about them that you were attached to, that you clung to them to keep?
(I'll edit my answer later).
2007-10-19 10:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by Q 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋