i dont know if im a lesbian or not..
i do go to church..
i dont watch porn...
or drink..or party.
i never looked at my friend with a lusty feel..or a feel to have sex with her..
which i dont even know how it would be like..cause we both are females...
so its impossible to be a normal sex..
i dont want that with her..
i just want to have her with me life long..
living together under one roof.
she is very much modern..i admire everything about her..her sense of style, her amazingly beautiful greens, her sharp and attractive features and she makes me laugh & we talk about a lot of stuff.
maybe,
IT IS ADMIRATION...AND I ALWAYS THINK ITS LOVE..
AND I TEND TO THINK I WANT HER LIFE LONG..
recently,i have been spending money on her..for her personal things..and a mp3 as a gift,i got it for her.
she sometimes call me "sexy'' and ''cutie" in a friendly way, she sometimes glance at me & when she asked me to come to her house, we are both really nervous. does she like me?
2007-10-19 09:57:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i do not also want to be a lesbian because my family are against that and i don't know what to do... How do i stop being gay?
2007-10-19 09:58:32 · update #1
What to say/do at her house? This is my first time and Im quite shy..
2007-10-19 10:01:10 · update #2
IF you are gay, there is no way to 'stop' it. It's just the way you are. It's possible however that you simply love her as a friend and admire her as you mentioned.
If the feelings are there, they are true feelings. You parent's attitude is IRRELEVANT. This is YOUR life, not THEIR life.
2007-10-19 10:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you're a lesbian, you just are. There's nothing wrong with it, no matter what some people may think, and you can't "stop" being gay. I loved my best friend with all of my heart, more than anyone in the world. I wanted to spend my life with her, we shared everything!!!!! Unfortunately she died 10 years ago. I'm straight but honestly, I love her and shared more with her than I do with my husband. I mean we grew up together. Go to her house and see what happens. If you are gay don't you want to know so that you can lead a happy life with a significant other? If you're not, well, cherish the time that you have with your friend. You just never know.
2007-10-19 17:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by sheyna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As Farien says you can't stop being gay. But you need to be sure that you aren't confusing your feelings for feelings of intense friendship.
I would go with the flow and go to her house. If she does anything you don't want her to and she is a good friend she will stop. You will both be embarrassed but then life will go on as normal. On the other hand you might enjoy whatever happens. Either way your questions will be answered.
I would however, stop buying gifts for now, as this could be giving her the wrong impression about you.
2007-10-19 17:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by steve 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋