Im a 19yr straight female. I have a bf and we have been together for a year.
Lately I keep on having dreams about "messing" around with girls. In my dreams, the girls will always touch me but I dont stop them.
I've never done anything with a girl in my life and Im not attracted to them. Any ideas on whats going on?
2007-10-19 09:54:02 · 12 answers · asked by nicoℓe 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It probably just means you're bi-curious, you could go through your whole life without wanting to actually have sex with another woman. My girlfriend had the same experience as far as I know has never acted on it.
2007-10-19 09:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Limestoner62 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait your only 19...
For me it started when i was 17 but then i finally got with a woman when i was like 18.
I had to find out why that was happening. Weather you choose to act on it or not will be up to you.
And most females are attracted to other female you just do not look at it that way. Do you ever judge if a girl is cute in that outfit? or how a girl walks in those shoes? Or even think that the guy walking down with the street with some girl is all wrong for her. How certain make up is not right? Or how her eye shadow is simply stunning or the her hairstyle?
Anytime you make a judgement like that you are admitting to liking girls. You have never thought of crossing over that line though and your subconscious is.
My friends do it all the time and so do I. They are straight for the most part and do not have dreams about girls but they admit that on occasion they would do it if they were drunk enough
2007-10-19 10:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by thewriterinny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is it a person you know in the dreams or is it just a random girl? a lot of times things that happen in our dreams aren't the literal translation of what they would mean in real life. try checking out a dream interpretation book or a dream interpretation website to see. don't get freaked out or anything, but if your body is trying to tell you something, accept it and go with it. happiness is the key
2007-10-19 10:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cat/Curiosity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your becoming more sexually aware and are having dreams about something you wouldn't let happen in real life. Nothing is going on. Its just a dream.
I have many girlfriends who openly talk about having dreams like this but none of them have acted them out. Don't worry about it it means absolutely nothing.
2007-10-19 10:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by steve 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she doesnt comprehend her sexuality to the fullest yet. Dont be bothered for her , yet deffinatly ask her if shes into females. If she is , attempt and communicate over together with her approximately what you may particularly her be / do . additionally , if she has to test to renowned her actual sexuality , maybe thats what she desires.
2016-11-08 23:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Worried,
Don't Worry. Really. Alot of women have dreams like yours, but that does not mean your lesbian, just like alot of men have sexual fantasy's with the same sex, this is just a human nature, but remember it does not make you lesbian, your perfectly fine.
2007-10-19 12:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Michaela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going on? You're having dreams of being with women. That's all. NO human is ENTIRELY one thing. ALL of us have tendencies, either almost non-existent or completely overwhelming, towards both genders.
2007-10-19 09:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have the same kind of dream too sometimes. its wierd cuse im not really into girls. i mean i would mind being with one but in all men are just so so so so much more of what i crave.
2007-10-19 10:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
u r bi curious darling
2007-10-19 10:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have these too... Dont know what they are about. Stress.
2007-10-19 09:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by Brown Eyed Girl 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋