I like him so much, Should I break up with him?

Question

I have been dating this man for 5 months, he always gives me the feeling he is looking for other options. So I told him my feeling and was going to leave, he stopped me and says he will change job and move in with me(we are 2 hours away). I agreed since I like him very much. Then he contacted me a lot more than b4 for a week. Now Im on a business trip, for the whole week he didnt send me any msg(the phone cant be used). but every time I called him he says he missed me and wants to meet me ASAP. But he is aloof just like b4. I called him, he told me he already put in the application and the job is 45 mins away from my place(he said in case our relationship doesnt work out he still has a way out).
why is he acting like this, should I break up with him?

Answer 1

You two do not need to be living together. Your relationship is not committed or serious enough to take that step. You "like" him and he wants to keep his options open. You should keep your options open too and see what else is out there. Stop jumping in the sack so quick. Seriously.

Answer 2

You're making him change? That's not gonna work. All because you think he's looking at other options? If he does what you say because you say, he's really not doing it for himself. It doesn't work that way, If he was looking for other options then he will later, Heck he might not have even been looking for other options, that's just a feeling you have. Look at how you turned is world upside down for some feelings you have? NOT good and nothing good will come of it.

Answer 3

Trust your feelings. He's looking for other options.

Answer 4

I say you tie this loser up, and make him listen to Neil Diamond for one week strait. Preferably with him singing Christmas songs....

That will fix him!!!

Answer 5

your boyfriend has commitment issues and so do you liking him is not enough reason to move in together.