Two of my best friends have told me that they like me. I told them that I just want them as friends, because I don't feel that way about them. One of them has tried to be just a friend, and is doing it well, but the other keeps bringing the topic up and asking me why I don't want him as more tham a friend. He acts differently towards me to. I'm worried that our friendship might be in jeapordy. Please help!
2007-10-19 09:06:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is my best friend, I know he is. It's just latley...he's changed. Not to the point of obbsession, but he has still changed. I can't end the friendship. I just can't.
2007-10-19 09:13:04 · update #1
They have been my friends for over three years, Gonzo. I know thats not true. They said themselves they only recently started liking me.
2007-10-19 09:14:25 · update #2
Sorry to tell you this, but they are probably only your friends because they wanted to hook up with you in the first place.
2007-10-19 09:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that u r only his frind and that's all it's going 2 ever b and if he doesn't understand that then isn't ur friend. as ur friend he shuld respect ur feelings towards him even though it may hurt him a lil nside
2007-10-19 16:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Letetsia F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe go out with him, just to make him happy, and then just explain its not working out and we should be just friends maybe after a week.
2007-10-19 16:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Buddy. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is pushing for more than you want to give, then he isn't your friend, he is just a horny guy.
2007-10-19 16:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋