I love him and want to make him happy but I have never wanted to do that. I have always thought it was okay until he started making jokes and comments about it. Our sex life is awesome as it is so what is wrong with me?
2007-10-19 08:50:20 · 12 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Giving oral sex to him is what I am talking about
2007-10-19 09:04:10 · update #1
You don't say if you mean oral on you or oral on him. I assume that you mean giving him oral pleasure and you don't like doing it. Some people are repulsed by the thought of putting a penis in their mouth and it can be hard to convince you that you should find a way to enjoy it.
I don't think that oral sex should be a deal breaker. He should be able to live without it if everything else is good. If not, then perhaps he is not the boyfriend for you.
2007-10-19 08:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by united9198 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean anything is "wrong" with you at all. Lots of women don't like to do it, and even the ones that do don't always enjoy it. Sure, he'd probably love it if you did, but if your sex life is otherwise good and enjoyable, don't worry about it.
If you want to ease into it, trying reading some books (romance novels or sex guides like "Tickle His Pickle") and imagining the idea. Get used to it in your head first, before trying it for real.
2007-10-19 09:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, many women do not like to give oral sex; some don't like to receive it. In sexuality, if you are uncomfortable with something, do not enjoy it, or do not want to do it then don't. A partner who is not willing to accept such things is most likely not someone that you want to be with. Sex requires a high degree of intimacy and understanding to be worthwhile.
2007-10-19 09:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Benjamin 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to love his body enough that you WANT to do that. That's all. Maybe some day you will. Don't do it just for him though.-That is from my hubby!
This is from a woman who is there! I have done it for other guys and then curbed or we go our separate ways. I think I may connect oral sex with losing a guy. And I DON"T want to loose my hubby. I feel dirty when I do give him oral. I don't like doing it unless I am completely loaded and feeling bad. But that happens like once a millenium! Or at least that is what he says! I would tell him how you feel about it and that you just don't feel comfortable doing it. It isn't that I don't love my husband's body, I just don't like the idea of putting a pee hose in my mouth! YUK! Sorry Hunny! LOVE YOU!
2007-10-19 08:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Dont hardship approximately it my lady pal doesnt like me giving her oral yet each and every now and then we could me to heat her up and rarley she provides it me yet im no longer in a relationship purely for intercourse its love that count.
2016-10-13 05:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothings wrong with you. I'm uncomfortable with oral sex on a whole. Id neither give nor want to recieve from any girl i think highly of I think its degrading sort of.. Get with a jamaican :p
2007-10-19 08:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by chig 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
No u r just not ready when the time comes u will your body has to choose if it wants 2
2007-10-19 08:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You have to be comfortable with yourself. You also have to be comfortable with him. It can be a great feeling for both of you, especially when he returns the favor!
You must remember one thing......no teeth & use your hands gently and often!
2007-10-19 08:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jonny B Bad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. In my opinion, oral sex is a corrupted form of what God intended sex to be...I personally find it revulting.
2007-10-19 08:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
I <3 doing it.
2007-10-19 09:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋