So my mom is cheating on my stepdad but it's with another woman. I'm not being judgemental cause i'm gay too but I still think it's odd to imagine my mom being a lesbian. Point being, should I tell my dad?
2007-10-19 08:47:43 · 17 answers · asked by eternalsunshine16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's a hard situation. I would try talking with your mom first to try and convince her that she needs to get things out into the open.
2007-10-19 08:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by Diane 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Just have a talk with your mother first. Asked her to explain to your stepdad personally. If she disagree so leave it be. Hopefully in time she will do the right thing.
2007-10-19 15:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by epoiezam70 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old are you? what a awful situation to be put in, shame on your mom for not being a better role model and for putting you in that position to keep the secret and shame on her for betraying her promise of committment. if she felt compelled to cheat she should have been honest with you and your dad, divorced then slept with who ever she wanted.
2007-10-19 15:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by ?! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating no matter what your preference. your mom should have been honest with herself and divorced your dad, or if she's bisexual at least share with him. if you know for a fact she's treating you need to bring some proof to your dad, at least enough to convince him to hire a detective to get evidence so she can't screw him too badly in the divorce. cheating is WRONG PERIOD. your sexual preference doesn't make you bad, cheating on your partner DOES.
2007-10-19 15:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your mom first, before talking to stepdad [SD].
They may have an arenagement. Who knows: they may be swingers, SD may know, SD may play with them too, the list is endless.
But, talk to mom first. You should not be the one to tell SD it should be your mother. Yes, I think she should tell him.
Good Luck
2007-10-19 15:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by BTP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No ! But talk to your mom and tell her what you saw . Ask her how she feels about it . But , don't say anything to your dad . It 's not your place to tell him .
2007-10-19 16:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly.. i think its something between them.... if u feel that strongly about it talk to your mom..i mean if it bothers you and u have a good relationship with ur step dad then u have to tell her how u feel... i really dont think it's ur place to tell him, but maybe u can tell her that she needs to....or u will? i dont know if u want to go to that extreme... it really depends on how strongly u feel about the situation
2007-10-19 15:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by grkqt83 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your step dad he might want to get in on the action.
2007-10-19 15:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You should get your family on a TV show like springer or Maury
2007-10-19 15:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
you got the best mother
2007-10-19 16:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by 2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋