I've noticed recently, upon updating my wardrobe to not look 15 anymore (I'm 21), that I've been getting "looks". Not from women, per say... But from older men. I'm fine with that, I just want to know why. They seem to hit on me quite a lot.
I don't concider myself a supermodel, or anything. And this question is not asked in vain, but why are SO many older men hitting on me. They can't ALL be gay, right?
Sometimes it's smiles, long stares, looks up and down. It's strange. Very not used to that.
2007-10-19 08:47:43 · 12 answers · asked by Billy H 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I guess a have asked a couple questions on how I look, but it's just because.. I'm not sure how I look. I'm not bummed out. I don't know if I'm goodlooking, but it's nice to hear that, so thanks.
2007-10-19 08:58:36 · update #1
You are not the only young stud out there getting checked out, it seems like guys are getting better looking every year. Also, while the older dudes are more bold at checking out your butt, and bulge, younger gay and bisexual guys are more discrete at it. Sit in a mall food court and people watch-- see a good looking guy, and then look around at the guys in the area and you will find a lot of guys will check him out. The old codgers may blatantly stare, while the younger ones may not even realize they are stealing glances. Most guys are attracted to other guys, just natural to admire the male form and ups our testosterone levels.--which is why guys hang out in groups, with the leader usually the best looking or most athletic.
Also seems like guys, once they hit 40 or so, they tend to reveal their bisexual side much more. If you were to look at any bisexual email group site, you'd find most are 40+. Whether this is due to hormonal changes, to keep guys this age from reproducing, or the fact that their wives have less interest in sex--who knows. But by and large, it seems the bisexual male really comes out more publicly after that age, or is at least obvious. Some of the guys probably have no idea how obviously they are drooling.
Enjoy the attention, maybe grin back at them now and then, you will make some lonely guy's day. Or maybe his week!
2007-10-19 13:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW -- listen to the sc*m fly in those answers. As a person who has fought my age my entire life -- I don't get it. I WANT to look as young as possible, and when I was 21 I did anything to look like I was still a teenager, because I knew when I was the age I am now I wanted to look years younger than I am now.
Of course pedophilia presumes the boy is PREPUBESCENT -- but I guess people don't know that.
Why would a cute boi of 21 want to try facial hair???????
Oh well, no accounting for, er... taste I suppose I should call it.
Now then, as to you -- your picture shows that you are attractive; and that's good -- and yes, there are far more (deeply closeted) gay men, of all ages -- than there are out and happy ones. Prajat, et al pretty clearly showed that there were 2 closeted homosexuals for every openly gay man.
What can you do? You are cute, and hot -- and some of those men are going to be attracted to you.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2007-10-19 09:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why all your questions have to do with how you look...
I do know that there are a lot of men who never got to act out on wanting to be with another man, just look on craigslist.org for any city, I am sure if it's as bad as you say, that other guys find you attractive... and in todays world, it's not so bad to look at another guy like a girl would another girl because they are envious of style... it just seems more common.
So... congrats on being good looking.
2007-10-19 08:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by u_fas_n8me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 04:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by stepp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
90% of older gay men (over age 50) who are not in relationships are perverts who go after ONLY boys who are 21 and under, or who look 21 and under. They'll offer you gifts, drinks, drugs, whatever it takes to get you in their bed.
I'm not saying this to be offensive, cuz you can be sure that if I'm single when I'm over 50, I'll be trying like hell to get a 21 year old in MY bed.
2007-10-19 09:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by Barney Blake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Billy,
I speak (for myself) as one of the older guys, I have gotten so use to seeing the young guys who look like bums with raggy looking clothing that I personally enjoy seeing a young man who is 'dressed' clean and looks like he takes pride in his appearance.
Don't be embarrased when people 'check' you out.
2007-10-19 09:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Robert W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that is a recent photo, then you DO look 15. Have you tried facial hair of some sort?
The only other thing I can think of is to check your zipper.
2007-10-19 08:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
either you look so ridiculous they can't help themselves... or they find you attractive and want to have man love... or it's all in your head... or not... or they just appreciate your clothing choices...
2007-10-19 08:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They must like what they see.
2007-10-19 12:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by hunkdujour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must be very hott and sexy looking
2007-10-19 08:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by tasty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋