How bad does sex really hurt? Will I start to bleed? Is it gonna hurt bad enough to make me cry? Am I gonna have any fun my first time?
Please girls.. No holding back.. I wanna know if I'm really ready for sex yet.
2007-10-19 08:31:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
you need to be emotional ready for the things that go along with sex girls become more emotional and attached
my first was with a guy i knew for over 4 years and he is my best friend now, for over 7- i would not have wanted it any other way!
its something special
the first few times it hurt! think about it, your body is smaller then the thing thats going to go inside it, make sense?!
also you might bleed the first time- your most likely going to break your hymen.
the first few times go slow and relax! go at your pace and i think after a little you will be ok
anything else email me!!
2007-10-19 08:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by sparklechic2010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is gentle and you are properly lubricated (either from your own natural "wetness" or from a bottle of lube), it might not hurt. And FYI, just because it doesn't hurt the first time doesn't mean it won't hurt the next few times. Especially if he's stupid enough to think he's supposed to be bouncing you around all rough.
You might bleed, you might not. It's different for everyone.
Your first time will probably be disappointing and awkward. I won't lie, it'll suck. And it won't automatically be better the second time. It takes time.
Please, if you decide to go through with this, use condoms AND some foam. And make sure he puts the condom on before he touches you with his penis, because sperm can also live in the pre-ejaculatory fluids he'll be leaking.
2007-10-19 15:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by nosleepthree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not. a woman's body doesn't fully mature until she is 21 or 22. Before then, sex is just sweaty sticky activity, because you won't have an orgasm. Why bother if you don't even get an orgasm out of it? The first time does indeed hurt sometimes and yes you can bleed, and no you probably won't enjoy it. My advice is to wait until your body is actually ready for it so you can enjoy it.
2007-10-19 15:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not ready nor old enough if you are asking this.
BTW how old are YOU and how old is HE?
Are you financially and emotionally stable enough to take care of a baby?
Is HE financially and emotionally stable enough to take care of a baby?
Are you ready to handle any STD's? Have you had a pelvic exam? Do you have birth control? Do you both have condoms?
2007-10-19 15:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're posting questions about this then no, wait until you are able to decide it for yourself
2007-10-19 15:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can teach you :)
2007-10-19 15:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋