is it bad to have sex before your married? like wat if you know your going to marry the person already and like you guys just want to make love is that bad?
also when do you think you should have sex like age wise?
2007-10-19 08:26:50 · 7 answers · asked by SOME1 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
What is it with you people !!!! Sorry hun by I think waiting to have sex just because you are not married yet is such a mundane reason set forth by religious fanatics.
Some people never get married! Does that mean they should stay virgins forever? And how come female virginity is soooo much more talked about and cherished? Is it only because we have a himen that gets broken? Talking about double standards!
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying you should do it. My point is that getting married to your boyfriend or not, plays no role here. What is important first of all is how you feel about him. Do you love him enough to do it with him?
How old are you? Teens are ready for sex physically but emotionally it takes a longer time for girls to start enjoying it. As one of the answers out there, I agree that girls start having orgasms durring sex when they are 20, 21.
Make sure that this is what you really want and you are ready for it, if so - go for it and enjoy.
Best of luck to ya!
2007-10-26 12:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by millie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a personal choice, I would only say that a woman should wait until after she is 21 or 22 simply because her body is still maturing up to that point, and the likelihood of having an orgasm before then is pretty low. Why have sex if you don't get an orgasm out of it?
2007-10-19 15:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 arguments wreck a marriage.
How the money gets spent.
Who does the housework.
How often to have sex and how it's done.
If you're engaged, I'd say every couple should do it at least a few times to see if it'll cause a problem in the marriage.
2007-10-19 16:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not good to have sex until your married. Even if you know that you are going to marry that person it is still not good because people don't always get married if they think they will. Also sometimes even when people get engaged, they still don't even get married. Sometime stuff like that just happens.
2007-10-19 15:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes it is bad God has given you a wonderful gift of being a virgin and you should cherish it
2007-10-20 00:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by ladybug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really but some people wait till marriage though
2007-10-19 15:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do all that you can to wait until you're married!!!
I'ts more worth while then!
2007-10-19 15:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by none 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋