I always said never, never ,never and then came him.....
2007-10-19 08:02:27 · 63 answers · asked by Sunshine's Twin 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You deserve much more than the time of a man who is not acting like a real man should. A real man should address the concerns of his marriage with his wife before instigating another "safe way out". A faithful man does not put himself in positions which could devestate his wife. If his marriage is going to not work out is should be addressed by him and his wife. You should exit the situation immediately as you have no right to be there while his wife does have a right to be there. His wife deserves to not be treated poorly by you as you would not want to be treated in such a way should it be you that would be married to him.
If he were to engage in something with you he would be admitting to you something of great concern in his character, something of unfaithfulness and because of this your mariage to him would be based on deception and lies.
You desreve more from yourself than how you are acting. Stand up tall and straight and LIVE your LIFE. Move yourself and LIVE.
2007-10-20 03:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do agree with the previous posts. It is only natural for someone to have feelings/fall for someone, whether they are married or not. It's only human nature. But the problem comes with the possibility of you acting upon those feelings. Have the feelings all you want, just don't try to woo him. That will get you into trouble and you'll probably end up regretting it. He married his wife for a reason. You can't replace her nor the reason. Just think before you act.
2007-10-19 08:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
question is when you feel on him did it penetrate? Than yes you would be a total Sh#% but just like a married person I do not feel makes you a ****, if so than I am guilty of it now. You see what they have and wonder where in the F did I go wrong.
MO
2007-10-19 08:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by MOs fishin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Me personally, I could never the woman who breaks up a marriage. When I met my BF, he had been separated from his wife for a couple years and they were in the process of getting a divorce. If they hadn't been though, I wouldn't have looked at him twice. I know you can't help who you fall in love with, but be careful, that's all I'm saying. Try to put yourself in his wife's shoes and imagine your husband was cheating on you. It'll just cause unwanted problems for everyone, it's better not to get involved.
2007-10-19 08:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by phatchick182004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would be a total *&^% only if you acted on your feelings. Remember you must respect his marraige regardless of whether or not he does. Don't be theother women. Nothing good can ever come of it. If he is willing to cheat on her with you then he will cheat on you with another as well later on at some point. Also if his marraige does fall apart wait at least 1 year after it is finalized maybe more so you can be positive that you aren't a rebound girl. etc.
2007-10-19 08:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by dizzygrltoo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! Run away fast before you fall any more. You're not a Sh$t but it is so not a good situation. 9 times out of 10 it won't end up in your favor.
2007-10-19 08:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't be a total ka-ka head if you fell for him...but you would be queen b*tch of the world if you followed up on it.....and we would all call you a home wrecker. What fun!
Remember, what goes around comes around and the universe tends to mete out it's own justice.
And (I have said this to potential adulterers before -even though the obviousness of it should leave it unsaid...), but the wife just might knock your teeth out (and she WILL find out) then you would have to put those teeth under your pillow and ask the tooth fairy to bring you your own man that you didn't have to be a skank to get!
2007-10-19 08:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes you would, he is married so stay out of it. If he decides that he wants a divorce once the divorce is final go for it but don't be the cause of the divorce and a homewrecker. And just remember that our past behaviors usually show how we act in the future so if he cheats on her more than likely he will cheat on you too.
2007-10-19 08:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jessa 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Most especially when he has kids.
You don't want to be a home wrecker.
I don't blame you for falling in love with him though. I'm sure there is something in him that completes you.
It is best to stay away from him, before it's too late.
There are single men out there whom you deserve way better.
2007-10-19 08:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by Angelina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you wouldn't if you fall for him, but if you do anything other than walk away then I think you have answered yourself.
Sorry I know the heart doesn't look at reason but you sometimes have to reject what the heart is saying and listen to your heart.
Good luck and I hope you make the right choice.
2007-10-19 08:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by Dragon Prince 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋