just wondering cause i k no a lot of nono vergins
2007-10-19 07:31:55 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yes, it's "okay" to be a virgin at any age.
i would suggest some english/grammar classes
2007-10-19 07:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by *DiZzLe* 4 · 6⤊ 3⤋
one of my best friends, was 13, but she was in 8Th grade[ late birthday] an that's the only guy she's ever had sex with,
i was 15 it was like a week before my birthday, but i had been with the guy for 8 months, an we are still together now.
[ 1 year& almos 5 months ]
im not going to say its "ok"
but if you love someone, then thats that,
you can't put an age or when your body is maturely ready
but the way your spelling is, you seem young for your age so you may want to wait, an dont just give it to anyone.
me an my boyfriend were both virgins, he is only a year & 3 months older then me but im a junior& he's already graduated, so i always said i was going to wait until i was inlove an thats what i did, i know many girls who lost it young, an have sex with more then one person, but its all in how you look at life, an what kind of respect you have for yourself,
if you haven't lost it yet, wait.
its better to be inlove.
2007-10-19 07:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
no i don't think its ok at all!!
i think its kinda nasty...you did something you can never get back w/ some one that doesn't love you and won't be willing to take care of you or a child that may come from having sex!
no guy respects a SL UT! and that is what you will turn into after you give it up to every guy that young
everything thinks its so cool to have sex young cuz "everyone else is doing it" but to tell ya the truth its not its way cooler to be yourself and not do what everyone else is doing!!
remember you can only give the gift of yourself once...and it is the best gift you can give the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with!
2007-10-19 09:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck no. You should at least wait until you are able to support the baby that you might have. sex was meant for that one person that you are willing to spend the rest of your life with. You will understand more whenever you get older. When i was 14 people always told me that i didn't need a boyfriend but i thought they were just crazy and didn't know what they were talking about but now that I'm grown i see that i didn't, please don't have sex with somebody just to look cool or just because it feels like the right thing to do because I'm gonna be honest with you. I was raped when i was 12 and now i wish that i wasn't because i want to give that to the guy of my dreams but i cant. Protect yourself and make sure it is the right then before you do it because you can always go forward but you can never go back. If you need anything else please message me at anytime because i really don't want you to ruin your life like all these other people are doing these days.
Good Luck!!!!
~Michelle
2007-10-19 07:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Of course there is something wrong with that! Why waste yourself with someone you will most likely not marry? If everyone jumped off a cliff, would you? Think of it like that, it's not always bad to go against the grain...it's usually smarter anyway.
You should only start having sex if you are ready to raise a child.
2007-10-19 10:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all..
Huh? What the heck is a vergin?
Stay in school and get an education.
Dont have sex
2007-10-19 08:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kazi05 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course its not ok.....why in the world would u ask a stupid question like that....my cousin ruined her life by loosing her virginity to young she had a baby that she couldn't even take care of......her BF left her with the baby and her parents kicked her at at 15.....
2007-10-19 17:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any 14 year old knows how to spell "vergin" correctly!
2007-10-19 11:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by Tanya :] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not o.k. cause everyone life in general is different meaning your friends may have problems why they turn to sex but after having sex for the first time can be a big problem.
2007-10-19 08:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is done is done. I lost mine at 14. I married the guy tho. Parents are not teaching thier children about the benifit of having sex with only one man/woman. My mother didnt set an example for me and my father told me that sex was for the devil. SOOOOOOO..........
Yea, if you have lost it, then it is done. but you can always reclaim your life back by not doing it again. It means more to you to only have sex with one person. It is like nothing else. If you havn't had sex yet, then wait until you are married. You will make some girl VERY happy if you do that.
2007-10-19 07:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
It's never okay to be a non "Virgin" at 14. There should be other things on your mind beside sex at that age. If you are a virgin, stay that way until your at least out of high school. Most girls regret the first time the have sex and wished it never happened.
2007-10-19 07:37:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋