Why do they cheat when they have everything they can possible want from their partner. Good looks, good finances, mind blowing sex. Why do they still want to mess around and what makes them and why cant they say NO! Women say no all the time. Maybe we should start saying yes.
2007-10-19 07:16:58 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry, baby, but she was standing ther naked! How could I say no? It was my duty as a man to hit that! Please forgive me! It'll never happen again! ;^)
2007-10-19 07:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Don 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOT ALL MEN CHEAT some do though and they shouldnt i have to agree they should be saying no but look at it this way what if you came home to spend the time with family and you were there with them and were all alone? sound fun no it isnt but some men will look for that little something in another womans arms so there i said it i have been there myself but didnt cheat as you say and then some men need a sexual fulfilment that they arent getting at home they find it elswhere in again another womens arms said it again have been there but i didnt cheat so there is two things in this equation another woman and the choice to do it you as a womean can change one of the two problems and be a little more understanding or a little sluttier for your man and give it up a little more often but ultimately if the guy cheats thats cause hes already rationalized it in his own mind which suggest low moral fortitude on the part of the man in a mans mind money and looks arent an issue but if they have to sit arouond and wait on you for almost everything then they arent with you they are waitning on you and they percieve that they are there for your convenience and then that leads down the road to adultery thum me down if you want but it is a whole lot more true than some of the answers that i have seen on here and a womens mindset is at the first sign of anything real or percieved then the guy is a cheatind Bas@ard and should be dumped according to the answers that i have read
2007-10-19 07:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they can. And do.
And they do it for any number of reasons. Some for the thrill of being able to "get away with it"; some because they have horrible lives at home; some because they aren't satisfied with just one woman; some because they just like to cheat. It really doesn't matter why...they always have plenty of justification for cheating, especially when they get caught. However, it's a lot easier justifying it to themselves than it is to a wife/girlfriend. But then, most think they'll never get caught.
To so many men (and women), sex is just sex, and they feel it has nothing at all to do with love. It's a totally separate thing to many people.
I say, if you want multiple partners, don't take the vows. Vows mean monogomy.
Oh, and rest assured many women do say "yes"....a LOT.
I love it when men get what they want from women, then dump them and say the don't want them any more because they're tramps. Well, what, then, does that make the guy? Duh.....
Have a great day!
2007-10-19 07:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Barbi T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: Immaturity.
Long answer: The man is immature. Men are wired to want to sleep with every woman he sees. This includes unattractive ones. This is why we see men cheating with less attractive women than their wives, all the time. For variety. The trick is that men who are good make a choice to be willing NOT to cheat. They will still want to but they don't. They know that the punishment and consequences would be that you will leave and leave for good. This is what will keep them from cheating, assuming he is a good man. If he cheats, he is not. It doesn't matter if his girlfriend or wife is the hottest model on the planet. Just look at Hugh Grant. He was dating a model. An actress. Many men would have died for Elizabeth Hurly. But, Huey Boy was found getting a BJ from an unclean hooker in his car. Why??? Variety. He isn't a good man. See? Good luck and proceed carefully.
2007-10-19 07:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by maggieeld 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat because of their own insecurities. They get in a point in their life where they wonder if they are still attractive to the opposite sex and that is when things start happening. Bottom line men that cheat are pigs and they need to be castrated as far as I am concerned. But honey if he is cheating on you then youneed to get out of the relationship and start new. He will always cheat if he is cheating now.
2007-10-19 07:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by jenniferk5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you do realize that women cheat just as often as men do right? Secondly, this queston is unanswerable, at least accurately. Men cheat for a lot of reasons. Some men cheat because they wanna boost thier ego and feel wanted. Some men cheat because there's something freaky that his girl won't do but that girl will. Some men cheat just to prove to themselves that their smart enough to get away with it. Some men cheat simply because they had the opportunity to have sex with someone they thought was hot and couldn't bring themself to pass it up. Some men cheat just because they're idiots who don't realize they gained nothing and had everything to lose. I, personally, have never cheated on anyone I was with, I've always broken up with the girl if I was tempted to stray. It's only fair. But for you to imply that men are the only ones who cheat, is ridiculous!
2007-10-19 07:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysremembertwentytwo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
easy there kitty. women cheat all the time too. not all men cheat. not all women cheat. it is all on an individual basis. if you are having trouble with someone cheating on you then maybe you just found the wrong man. i know many faithful men and include myself in that category. just because you are angry at one or two people doesn't mean you have to hate us all.
2007-10-19 07:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the women say no all the time? Then who are the men cheating with???
2007-10-19 08:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by snoopy22564 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it really all good ? Good looks,Sex(mind blowing)Finances.You missed one thing, LOVE? I'm about to get divorced and my friends and family think it's all good.We have a model daughter, 3 home, IRAs, bank accounts. But wheres the love, you can't always be right and in control of every thing, and neither can he. no one wants to step down or to the side. I love my wife, but she want to tell me when, how, who, what, and where. Life doesn't work like that. When I came into this I was broke(not in debt), but because she always has to be right she'll have to give up half . About $275,000 .Plus spousal support. But she'll be RIGHT. I don't want her money but if she can't be wrong sometimes, that's what it's going to cost her.The love of money,and not family has cost her, her family. I hope she's happy.
2007-10-19 07:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by Aaron S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are hunters, women are settlers.
Men want variety, women want "the one".
Men want to conquer, women want to nest.
This is the way it is, and this is the way it always has been.
However, the strong commit, the weak cheat. No matter what they have, they want more.
Sometimes people don't know what they have until they lose it.
2007-10-19 07:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by DigiDoc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are tempted by guess who ... women .... and women are very good at controlling men often in subtle ways. Its that innocent glance that wakes up a mans desire to talk with that unknown woman.
Women are usually the instigators by dressing provocatively and mild flirting which is acceptable behavior. Muslims know all about that and keep their women hidden for a reason.
2007-10-19 07:41:01 · answer #11 · answered by Alaska 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋