I want to believe for the sake of my infant daughter, but my head tells me to beware.
2007-10-19 03:58:36 · 32 answers · asked by Dana D 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
What did he lie about? If it involves significant issues like fidelity and money or drugs, then most likely, NO.
If it was that he lied that he liked your burned pork chops, when he really didn't, then it is something to be overlooked.
Trust is earned by being trustworthy. It is lost by being untrustworthy.
It can be regained by exhibiting a sincere desire to change and by a sincere effort to get help to bring about those changes.
I wish you the best.
2007-10-19 04:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by Alvin York 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends upon the nature of the lie. If we're talking about cheating, for example, that's a tough one. If its anything abuse related, like "I'll never hit you again", then get out now and never look back. Can you get back in his relationship history and look for patterns of behavior? With an infant daughter, I'd be very cautious too.
2007-10-19 04:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by turnabout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what he lied about. Did he cheat on you? Don't believe cheaters for the most part they never change. Only you know if you can trust him. If you head is telling you know, I would listen and not give him the chance to hurt you again.
2007-10-19 04:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by NeLLie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can, but like anything, it takes time. Look, only you know in your heart what you feel for him, and I'm sure that if you have doubt, it's because he puts it there. Having a child together makes it that much harder to leave, but millions of people have done it. In my opinion, people who stay together for the "sake of the child" are doing a disservice if it's a bad situation.
2007-10-19 04:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by L.A. Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, NO. I LOVE my man, don't get me wrong. But as far as trusting him? He made that damn near impossible. We have kids, too, but that doesn't mean I can trust him...Because we don't just have kids together. He's had several others since we've been together.
Don't get me started.
If you feel like you can't be in a relationship where the trust has been broken, then for goodness sake, get out of it. That doesn't mean your daughter can't have her daddy in her life at all, though.
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2007-10-19 04:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dana.... I never lied to you...... I said I was going to the store to pick up a few things..... what I failed to mention was I had lost my wallet and went over to my brothers house who asked me to help him move his stuff to his new place in North Dakota. ..... That's why it took me so long to get back .... and you know my brother is a perfume salesman so that why I reek of so many scents. ......and of course being a man I forgot what was on the list .... but if you give me $50 I'll run right out be be back in ......
2007-10-19 04:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ronatnyu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can all make mistakes. I like to think people can change and everyone deserves a 2nd chance. All depends on if you can forgive and trust him again. Only you can decide that!
2007-10-19 04:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the nature of the lie, but if you feel he's broken your trust... then yes, beware and be careful
2007-10-19 04:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by :-) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I trusted my now ex bf for a long time until I learnt the truth.
2007-10-19 04:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by ♆Şрhĩņxy - Lost In Time. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...beware. Men who lie to you will most likely lie to you again. Move on to a 'church going' guy.
2007-10-19 04:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋