How can I over come my self-conscience about being tall?

Question

I am 5'11, I love my height, but its hard to love it to much when everybody around me only stands to my shoulders(with flats). I want to wear cute heels, but they make me 6' tall+ and then being around all the other shorter people makes me feel even taller. How can I overcome all of this?

Answer 1

I know how you feel. We have the same height (5'11"), but I am proud of my height. I'm pretty young and still growing. It helps being tall. I do commercial modeling and a tennis Ace Varsity player. Wanna know why I feel better being tall? Stupid and mean guys got intimidated to bully me around and much more to flirt like a jerk. I feel safe in that area.

We are girls who are taller than the boys. Although, this can make a girl feel awkward, especially when it comes time to be paired up, like at a school dance. Eventually, this evens out, but it takes a little while because many girls have their growth spurts before the boys do.

Someone teases you about being too tall, sometimes, this kind of teasing is the worst. You can't change your height, so what are you supposed to do? As with most teasing, try not to let it bother you. You have to re-establish your sense of self or self confidence. It gets easier each time you go through this. We are all the wonderful things or should I say creature we thought we were.

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Answer 2

Your so cute! You really shouldn't be worrying, but as you are, here are some tips; - Get some exercise. Join a club or some such. Exercise boosts your confidence, and if your serious about loosing weight it will help. - Your 13. Some girls don't start puberty until they are 16, be glad you have any breasts! Seriously, bodies develop at different rates. Try talking to other women in your family as body development and shapes are genetic. - Build up your own 'style'. Your friend may be a tall and thin, but your not. She is stuck with being tall and thin, your not. You can be the small, cute blonde. People are attractive in different ways, think Nicole Kidman and Renee Zelwigger. Dress to your shape, and be proud of it! Every time she tries on a pair of trousers that don't cover her ankles she's probably wishing she were built like you. Don't worry so, you are who you are. Beauty is built from confidence, try watching some make over shows. Women who look but ugly get given some confidence and end up glowing! Be proud of you, there's no one else quite like you.

Answer 3

Just be confident with yourself. I have the opposite im a bloke but im only 5'6 so i look small compared with a lot of people. but if your self confident people will not have any problems with your hieght. Just remember theres nothing wrong with being tall its a blessing, jus look around and see how different everyone is

Answer 4

well, be proud of who you are, I LOVE tall women even though I am really short at 5'3", I dont care if they tower over me. WE cant help how tall we are, why should people be judged based on height?

Just remember there are guys like me who love tall women.

Answer 5

Wear those heels, stretch those legs out, smile, & feel beautiful. Forget about how tall you are & think about how attractive your height makes you.

Answer 6

You cannot decrease your height, so you have to accept it, and the fact that people who like or love you will accept you the way you are. It is no crime to be tall.

Answer 7

A tree in the forest once asked me that, but when the sun came out, it was very happy to catch the rays. Find someone who thrives in the shade.

Answer 8

The first thing you should know is that I'm tall too. Being tall is nothing to be ashamed of. You should be proud of it. It's one of god's blessings.You can be a great model.

Answer 9

Just be confident and pretend like you're a model.

Answer 10

99 % percent of the girls will love to have your " problem ".