on TV it's the opposite. That obese heart attack candidate King of Queens with that pretty Leah Remini, then that greasy hog aaccording to Jim. In real life, alot of cute guys are with hogs. What's that about?
IMO - Don't get all butthurt cause I am expressing my opinion.
2007-10-19 02:12:14 · 25 answers · asked by NR77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some men marry decent girls and they have kids and turn into fat pigs and the husbands cheat with smaller cute chicks like me!
2007-10-19 02:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
It could be for a few reasons- maybe those people "the cute guys with the hogs" aren't shallow and they can see past physical appearance. They probably were (and maybe still are) physically attracted to their girlfriend or wife. Appearance changes over time and so does love. In the beginning, people might be attracted only physically but as they learn more and get to know the person, then they love them for who they really are and not what they look like.
I have also been told that people tend to look for someone more average looking rather than beautiful. It makes them feel better about themselves and they don't worry as much about cheating- because they think that if their partner isn't that great looking then who else will want them?!
2007-10-19 02:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You can express your opinions in a way which is not disrespectful or offensive to others.
Do you expect an answer from the people you are calling fat, pig, hogs???
Come on?
And when you do realize that it is wrong, instead of starting over, you've got the immaturity to hide behind: it's just my opinion???!!!
Everybody could be a president, look at GWBush, he's not very clever, right, maybe like you, but he doesn't go around calling people's names!
Then you have those who study and have positions.
You also have those who haven't done long studies, but who are very clever, and see, they'd never express their opinions in that way.
If you want to have a proper conversation with someone, and you are starting, then you have to understand that you also set the level, the quality and the breadth.
Now, if people reply by swearing at you, not only would you have deserved it, but then, if you meant to have a conversation, and proper opinions, then you'll be quite disappointed.
Respect people and try and present your arguments in a constructive way, even though you have strong opinions.
See you till next time!
2007-10-19 02:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My question is.... Do you know what unconditional love is? It is a love that isn't bound to looks.... It is bound to the way that person views their spouse, always beautiful... Even at 9 months pregnant with swollen ankles and they are feeling quite sick... The ugly pigs? as you call them? 9 time out of 10, have you seen what they looked like before having kids, and having all that stress and everything going on 24/7? Now, I'm not saying that you shouldn't look great for your spouse, but give these gals a break. They are trying, I know I sure did. While I was trying to loose weigh, I got pregnant again. And yes, birth control was used. So while you look down on these women (in your opinion right?) just know that they probably are trying to get back to the knock outs they used to be, and while juggling every ball life throws at them, including the looks from someone like you, who by the sound of it is probably single and gets to be selfish all they want. Oh, and don't get butt hurt, I'm just expressing my opinion.
2007-10-19 02:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Your opinion is just that...YOURS! Have you ever thought that maybe these cute guys actually look farther than skin deep, like you don't !!. They probably see these women as beautiful because they are not shallow and self centered. I know its hard for you to believe but there are actually people out that that falls in love with the PERSON and not the package. I bet you consider yourself a beautiful person, don't you? Just by you asking questions like this makes you really unattractive. But don'[t give up hope, there are some men out there that is just as shallow as you and you two would make a perfect match and then the two of you can have some "perfect" children.
2007-10-19 02:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As we all know tv is close to real life, however, it is still not real. Cute guys with ugly girls only goes to prove that guys do find the way a woman carries herself very attractive. Things like self-confidence and kindness do matter. I have had a couple of occasions where I did not find a certain guy attractive, but after hanging out and getting to know him, I began to feel some chemistry. I think that is part of the reason that cute guys end up with ugly girls. On a lighter note--Opposites attract?!
2007-10-19 02:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm not offended as I have seen this also. From what I've seen and heard, these men love and adore their wives as they are great moms, a great partner and very good in bed. Most women start out looking quite good but in the process of having children and aging, they tend to gain weight.
Having said that, I also see lots of great looking women with men who are fat; big beer bellys, triple chins.
None of it matters if the two people in the relationship are happy together. Truth is, you can lose weight, but you can't change a persons character.
2007-10-19 02:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its T-E-L-E-V-I-S-I-O-N ... They will do anything to make the viewer talk about it. Like when you see something so stupid and rediculous on a TV commercial.. You may think that is the worst idea they could come up with, BUT when you go tell your friends how stupid it was.. your actually advertising for them. They'll do anything to appeal the human eye.
Take a look on what your doing now.. Maybe one person viewing this will now go watch that show if they haven't yet and see what you are talking about.. Hence better ratings for the tv show.
2007-10-19 02:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by juventus0151 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let me just start with askin you why are you a male callin other males cute?? are you jealous that a cute male is with a fat woman rather than you??
anyways.. they say if you want a good and faithful wife, you marry a ugly one.. lmao.. there actually is a song about it..
but seriously i think ppl fall in love with who they fall in love with.. as for tv, maybe the media is just tryin to boost not so attractive ppls confindence, letting them know that there is someone out there.. who knows.. its friggin tv...
but as for real life.. some men like big women, some women like big men.. thats what makes us all different..
but as far as expressin your opinion.. i dont think you have to be soo mean about it.. you dont need to be callin women fat ugly pigs.. you know, some of those "fat ugly pigs" might not would give you the time of day..
dont be so judgemental, cuz one day it will be your judgement day..
2007-10-19 03:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by cathy n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen both.
When you are playing the dating game, fat is the kiss of death. But when the dating game is over.....
Well a lot of people let themselves go after they get married.
Which is a shame;
because male or female, your body is your gift to your mate, letting it go is not only silly from the personal health standpoint, but a profound sign of disrespect.
2007-10-19 02:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently these gals have a lot more to them than their looks...
And some men like heavier women- we all have different ideas of beautiful. Haven't you ever felt someone was more attractive once you got to know them? Or met someone gorgeous that lost their physical appeal to you because they were so ugly inside?
2007-10-19 02:22:25 · answer #11 · answered by Simply_Renee 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋