i mean as in have sex everyday with them?
2007-10-19 02:01:24 · 28 answers · asked by simply_me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
most of them do but if they are consierate and caring they will go without a night or two. if there are circumstances where it is not the better thing to do.
2007-10-19 02:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by morningstar6707 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do and some don't it depends on their sex drive. I did. My wife (now x) and I had sex every night, 2-3 times on Saturday and Sunday or other days off work. I know this is going to be hard to believe but after we got used to each other and my wife let go she would have up to 6 orgasms a night. I asked her and she told me. She blamed me (in a joking way) for making her such a sexual person.
You women may not like this but many men are not getting enough at home and are getting it (as it is said) on the down low. More men are practicing bisexuality with the acceptance of homosexuality and not being satisfied in their relationship.
My X is Korean and they believe in giving the man so much sex that they wouldn't be able to have it out side the marriage or other relation. but i found that many Korean women will "cheat." i believe because they are not really being satisfied and to show some irrational idea of independence. My X told me that her sister wanted to try oral sex that she never experienced it. Her husband would not do that so she would find it out side her marriage.
What i'm getting at is there needs to be more open communication about the sexual desires and willingness to satisfy those desires in the relationship. Don't assume that everything is fine.
2007-10-19 09:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by gdc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone once said, "when you're single it's either free or dinner and show or $100 and off you go. When you get married, it's a mortgage and car".
I guess with some guys, it's the price that dictates the reward". Seriously, marriage is not "living in the same dwelling and sharing the meals and clean up". Marriage is a commitment to enjoy the best things and the worst things in life. To care and share with each other. And THAT, sometimes means understanding the "need" of your partner and doing things that you would not normally do. This applies both to men and women.
2007-10-19 11:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Walrus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think things have changed very much in the past 10/20 years. Men and women have more insight into what they expect and need, and things like the question of "how often" and "how much" are sorted during courtship. Naturally during the first years of marriage sex is high on most couples agenda. It should not be a question of either party "expecting" sex on demand and the best marriages are based on a healthy appetite in both partners with both continuing to show an interest and instigating sexual pleasure. Unequal sexual appetites is responsible for an awful lot of breakdowns in marriage.
2007-10-19 09:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by Normsgirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do not "expect" their wives to have sex with them daily, but "hope" that they do!
Since the mind of the fairer sex is a mystery to most men and only the most obvious indicators of your arousal are picked up, men simply start foreplay and ask for sex whenever they can (daily). For me it's not to apply pressure for sex, but just to see what type of response I get...If it pays off once, then it's worth at least another thousand attempts!
2007-10-19 09:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not expect it. If she were into then that would be fine but what happens when she is not there mentally? Sex every day seems like a lot even for a guy....come on who can do that?
2007-10-19 09:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only at first... It will wind down.. But what is wrong with you not wanting to have sex every day.... There are many married woman out there that wait months for their man.. You have a chance to have it every day and you are complaining..... Grasp it my dear.. Before you know it you will be back oh here asking how come my husband wont have sex with me? We used to do it every day? Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-10-19 09:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do some girls do, it all depends on a persons sex drive. Not all guys are like this. Some guys would rather just have someone to hold so it all depends on the individual.
2007-10-19 09:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by level_9yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy and his view of what marriage is. I know some guys who think it's their right to have sex with their wives whenever they want...my husband and I view it as a priviledge we both share with equal rights to submit or say no.
2007-10-19 09:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by beast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not from my experience. I've never met a guy who wanted to have sex everyday. At least not after we've been together for awhile.
2007-10-19 09:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it's expected. I know for myself as much as I love him, I don't want to have sex each night while I'm in the same bed with him!
2007-10-19 09:06:08 · answer #11 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋