Why? I have never faked an orgasm and I have girlfriends that do and I asked them why? They say they don't want to her their bf's feelings, I say but your just reinforcing bad moves and aren't getting what you need out of the sex. They say they think their bf's will get mad at them, I have to know if this is your reasoning what kind of b.s. /b.f.'s do you have that you can't show him what you like and how to please you? Why would you stay w/ a dude who couldn't speak about your likes & dislikes? I just think orgasm's are great & everyone should have them, often! LOL!
2007-10-19 00:57:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
by ͏҉ ßõhrçmrïñsîł: I'm w/ u chick!
2007-10-19 01:08:59 · update #1
sarahmac : I am all woman sweets. I just don't understand my friends who do this nonsense so I'm bringing it to an open forum to hear what women have to say!
2007-10-19 01:10:20 · update #2
sarahmac: I think women who fake it are pathetic! Sorry to the chicks who do!
2007-10-19 01:11:04 · update #3
I fake'em every now and then. But they're only fake in the pretend sense and not in the lying sense. I just do it sometimes to wind him up a bit more with all the increased scratching and moaning. So I guess you could say it's kind of like role playing in a way. And he knows I do it (and likes that I do it). So that's why I say they're not fake in the lying sense... Because, while I'm not blurting out "I'm faking! I'm faking," in the middle of sex, I'm honest about what I do. Sometimes, after sex, he'll ask, "So, which ones were fake." And I'll say something like, "Just the first one, hubby. The other five were ALL YOU." LOL
Anyway, I agree with what you're saying. I can understand the desire to not want to hurt the man's feelings. But damn, how can a woman expect a man to please her if she never tells him what she likes (or doesn't like)? Men aren't mind readers. Romance novels, movies, and such tell us different. But, out here in the real world, men don't know everything. And, as "talented" as some of them may be, there are always going to be things that they need to be told since each woman has different feelings and preferences. And for crying out loud, if you're gentle, loving, patient, and polite with a guy, how hurt can he possibly get over simply being told that you'd rather do "this" like "that" or "that" like "this"? GEEZE! I can understand that it might go poo on his ego a little bit, and he might be disappointed to find out that his woman didn't like "it". But I'd like think that any rational man would pick his bottom lip off the floor and realize that it's something to be happy about... Because, after all, a pleased woman makes a better lover. It's a win-win situation for both parties.
2007-10-19 02:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by SINDY 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger - in my early 20's - I didn't even know what an orgasm was suppose to be or feel like. I just thought going through the motions (moans & groans) was what you were suppose to do.
But once I hit 25 EVERYTHING came alive. :D
And now as GOD as my witness, I'll never fake an orgasm again!! :P
2007-10-19 10:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by LADY beautiful mind (is sexy) 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I dont think I have.... all the boyfriends Ive had were able to take me there, so there isnt any reason to fake it. If Im not feeling the sex, I simply ask the guy to stop, then I stand up and walk away.
2007-10-19 12:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
i used to fake it since i did not know what a rel orgasm was. now i cannot fake it my husband knows his girl so well, all he has to do is hit the right chords. orgasms rule. dddaaayyyuuuummm. i am so glad i get them on a regular basis. too. i feel sorry for women who feel they have to, they are shortchanging themselves and missing out on the feel good hormones.
2007-10-19 11:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by KARMA IS IT THOU? 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
NEVER.....if I fake it, how will he ever learn that it's not doing it for me? Nope I come right out and tell them what I like and what I don't........if they still don't get it, I'm not giving them the satisfaction of thinking they did a good job.
2007-10-19 08:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by ͏҉ ßõhrçmrïñsÿ★ 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Are you really a man? you sound perfect . I have, so i can get on with what i was doing before i was disturbed. lol
2007-10-19 08:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by sarahmac 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
yes, if I am uninterested just to get him off of me
2007-10-19 08:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by butterflytam1970 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋