saying that what he have is his and what i have is mine, but the thing is i don't have nothing coz i don't have a job and don't earn anything, it's 7 years now since we married, i work for him and received nothing , yes sometime i asked money to buy myself things that i need
2007-10-19 00:17:10 · 10 answers · asked by CECILIA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Start charging him for sex and see if he doesn't change his mind.
Tell him, that since you only work at home, raising his children, that you should be duly compensated. Send him a bill for $25 an hour for Babysitting, tutoring, cooking, running errands, housecleaning (that would be a 10 hour day, every day of the week, every week of the year, for the rest of your life).
And when he wants to have sex, then tell him that the cost is $3000 a night (after all, you would not want to be perceived as a cheap hooker - I am not trying to offend you)
I wouldn't sign squat. He is lining you up to leave you. What do you gain if you do? NOTHING.
What do you gain if you don't? Depending on what state you live in, and if you can prove he is fooling around, it could cost you half the assets of the family.
2007-10-19 00:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Christmas Light Guy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do not sign this without taking it to a lawyer.
In most states(location or community), every thing that he has, half of it belong to you, even if you were not married(after seven years of togetherness, you are in a situation that is called common law marriage). Also you have contributed to his business and since you received nothing, half of the business is also yours.
But laws are different in different location but by and large they are same all over only the details are different.
You did not say why this thing needs to happen. What is the driving force behind this?
Privately seek a lawyer and have him find out, in any case both should have separate lawyer, looking at the interest of each individuals.
Do you have children together?
2007-10-19 07:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not sign.How can that be a loving relationship if there is no trust.That means they don't trust you and thier possetions are way more important then me.It is a selfish act.I'm a stay at home mom and my hubby gives me a little extra just for me.He knows it's a hard never ending job to be a stay at home mom.He was down in his back for a month and saw what my duties were on an every day basis.He would not switch for nothing.Most men think it is easy,but would they do it 24/7.My duties start at 5am and they end?Even when we are in bed our duty doesn't stop.If the kids get sick we are up with them and they are sleeping.I mean they think the house cleans itself and and we lay around all day.Well mine knows.When you ask for money does he give it to you?
2007-10-19 07:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have a job...he's gotten away with not paying an employee for the past 7 years. Don't sign anything, but do start to document all of the hours that you work for him and what you do around the house. If it ever does come down to a divorce situation..sounds like he won't want to be fair.
2007-10-19 07:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to be getting some type of salary especially since you are working. I don't think signing a pre or post nuptial is good. You basically are saying you won't be together for ever. Maybe get a job somewhere else so you will have your own money.especially since he says that what is his is his.
2007-10-19 07:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kasey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so is this a marriage to be gone into with love and to be united as one or is this a partnership agreement? it would be good to say to sign it that way you dont lose anything but stop planning for the future so much. its a marriage you're talking about. i dont know why you dont have anything of you're own but i suggest you start working on it if a prenup is required from your partner. i mean to me that just leaves the option of separation open.
2007-10-19 07:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by morozco5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, NO!!! You shouldn't of signed a prenupual agreement. When you're married you're supposed to want to share those things together. You both should act as one!
2007-10-19 07:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Chad's Baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because legally if you sign nothing, you're entitled to half of what he has.
Do NOT sign anything! He can't make you.
It sounds like he's looking to divorce you in the future...
2007-10-19 09:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like my dad. Men don't realize that women staying at home and doing housework, luandry, shopping, raising the kids thats more work, than they do at there "job" where they get paid.
2007-10-19 07:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by his wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you choose to sign this agreement, and your marriage happens to end, he walks away with EVERYTHING he put into the marriage. You walk away with nothing. It's your choice.
2007-10-19 20:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋