what do u do when u feel......!?

Question

Lonely?!

just curious

thanks.

Answer 1

i go 2 allah and talk 2 him
i pray or read quoraan

Answer 2

I wish I knew, but since I don't know where you live or your circumstances, I don't have much advise.

I'll share this quote with you.

"Be your own best friend and don't forget to wink at yourself now and then."
By Diane von Furstenburg

If I'm lonely I sit down and have a cup of tea with myself and read a good historical romance novel.

I like historical novels because they take me back in time and to a place I have never been before.

If you go to the library and check out the book, you can spend some time and they are very good to help you find the right book.

Ask if the library might need a volunteer.

They usually do.

You can also get involved in the community doing volunteer work.

Hospitals, schools, nursing homes, women's shelters.

Check with you Chamber of Commerce and they will refer you to what is available in your community.

Great way to meet people and make reliable, trusted friends.

Hope I have been of help to you.

Thanks for the great question.

Answer 3

Realize God loves me; God is Omnipresent; and only veils of misqualified energy are between me and God.

Then I realize I am like Adam, and ought turn to God, be happy, less lonely, and love and obey completely what is True.

Then I try to follow the Law and the Prophets.

Then, with God and the Scriptures, I begin to place a bright golden white Light around myself, if I care to look within for a few minutes.

Or, I might take a walk in the nature, work in the garden, fix a cup of tea or some soup, count my blessings, smile, etc.

Then, maybe do something positive for myself or another, and give my feeling a good night's sleep, first asking God to protect me, instruct me as my body sleeps, and make me a better person. Reading or taking care of a plant or such also helps. Some books that I find helpful include "Mindset" by Carol Dweck, psychologist, as it takes time to learn to be of a creative mindset.

Also, I give thanks to God for the lonely feeling, and ask to be healed and even informed as to its cause and core. If really depressed, I will go to the store and buy some chocolate or some other small treat, which I bless and feel encouraged to intensify my desire to be healed.

regards,

j.

Answer 4

Actually I talk to Allah, tell Him every thing I wanna say so that I don't feel lonely. However, this was valid till a near time, as I'm experiencing a new experience to me, I don't feel lonely any more, this may be strange for some reason that someone here knows ;-), still I don't feel lonely, you're always with me, to be accurate, within me, and to be even more accurate, inside the bottom of my heart.

Answer 5

umm I'm always lonely so i do nothing just pray to god to find me someone who will keep me SO happy that i will never be lonely again yea that about it and if I'm feeling really really lonely then i cry...........

world_gypsy: any advice how i can find happiness, i cant just find happiness in a blink of an eye i go through all of stuff at home...............I'm not surround with people who love me

Answer 6

I'd go shopping or visit a bookstore. Pick up a book or a magazine, buy a cup of coffee and read to pass the time.

Answer 7

Although I'm supposed to do what Brokenheart said, but I do a very bad habit! I EAT AND EAT LOL terrible I know!
Thank God recently I have been controlling this habit and instead of EATING my way out of this loneliness I go to the gym instead and yeah it feels GOOOD :P

Answer 8

More than lonely I feel bored,then I open my past diaries,look at my old poetry,old photos,its just a pleasure ~HUGZZ~

Answer 9

Lots of things:
- pray
- read
- call friends & family.
- visit friends & family
- keep busy
- help somebody (thinking about someone else makes you forget you're lonely)

And, Tasha -- don't expect someone else to make you happy -- find happiness and you'll attract someone else!

Answer 10

i feel lonely most of the time. actually, this doesn't cause me much trouble. i enjoy mental rest when i am alone... lol
i noticed that i decline most invitations to stay at home!!
mayb i am a bit strange, but i feel comfortable.
also, pc & internet takes most of my time.

Answer 11

Cry myself to sleep while hugging the life out of my pillow.
An hour later I get up and watch TV.