..when you can't be with the one you sincerely care and love?
and it's not some teenage infatuation - it was unexpected - started off as friends and went up the ladder - you've grown a close fondness and bond as the yrs went by...
2007-10-18 18:21:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I don't know if it's woman intuition or a gut feeling but everytime i kissed him...it was biter sweet...i could see myself with him for a long time but not at the moment...my stomach kept giving me a feeling, "just wait...not now...you'll have something special like this...just not now..." very STRONG...i could have easily just had something if i really wanted but my stomach was giving in...
2007-10-18 18:21:43 · update #1
HISTORY (don't have to read it if you don't want to):
CLOSE friends for 3 yrs and he's secretly liked me but he never went for it b/c he thought the chances of being w. me were slim only to find out that after all this time, I felt the same way back - I was the first girl he fell in love with (both in our 20's and gave him his first kiss; no sex just kisses) BUT we decided to be friends and not to rush (i would be his first girlfriend and said he wanted somethinf more "real, long lasting" with me - "shy guy type") When things were getting normal, "life challenges" (death) and rumors/assumptions from friends made us drift apart (he pushed me away - didn't see or talk for about 4-5 months) and it created tension BUT rather than giving up or seeking revenge, we worked it out and everything is starting to be better than before, the relationship grew (this happened in a 9 month span)
2007-10-18 18:21:59 · update #2
from reading the whole story, I see perhaps two people being cautious so that they don't end up a statistic like often happens and perhaps a bit of thinking the other person is too good for me. You may have to just sit and talk, and bring up the question of the future. You mentioned deaths, so both of you have to remember that death can happen but you have to live day by day and and if we wait too long to grab happiness it may not be there tomorrow for whatever reason. remember the Gestalt prayer!
I am I and you are you
I am not in this world
To live up to your expectations
And you are not here to live up to mine
If by chance we meet it is beautiful
If not, it cant be helped.
from what you said, it can be beautiful for you two
but if not it can't be helped
You just have to talk and decide which it is
2007-10-18 18:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Addicted, that's the answer.
2007-10-19 01:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy N K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋