In the last couple of months i have had suspicion that my sister is a lesbian but i don't have any prof i need to find prof please help me!!
2007-10-18 17:43:48 · 10 answers · asked by MC 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you have plenty of optios here...
!) Just flat out ask her. She might not tell the truth, but you never you know.
2) Ask your parents or tell them that you think something's going on. And if they don't know, maybe they'll have a talk with your sister.
3) Do a little spying. Go Charlie's Angel for a few days. lol. Watch her for a little while and see what you can find out. It may be wrong, but you'll get whatyou need. DON"T GET CAUGHT!
Thi sis all I can thik about for now...... Good luck!
2007-10-19 04:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by ♥bRoKeN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off: It's really none of your business. (Heck, I'll say it for her)
Secondly: If she wants you to know, she will tell you.
Thirdly: what affect will knowing have on the fact that she's still your sister?
If you think that by you knowing you can then run and tell your parents, let me stop you right here. DON'T. That's just going to blow up in your face. You'll perminantly damage your relationship with her and probably upset your parents, making them either not trust you or (Depending on their views on homosexuality) damage their relationship with her.
All you need to know is that she is and will always be your sister. She isn't sick or evil or bad or anyother negative connotation. Being gay is natural and normal...but it's still private.
2007-10-18 19:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just try talking to her? I'm sure she would be more appreciative of you actually being human and talking to rather than you snooping around trying to find "proof" of her being a lesbian. Think about her feelings too...
2007-10-18 17:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Molly the Great 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need proof? If she is, when she is ready to do so, she will tell you. Until she tells you, you have no way of knowing. You could ask her but from the way you speak of her, I suspect she will tell you to mind your own business.
2007-10-18 17:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by tentofield 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
ok number one: why do you care if she is a lesbian or not? will it make her any less your sister either way?
number two: have you ever tried asking her?
2007-10-18 17:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by dances with cats 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
maybe check her dvd collection and if she has posters of girls on her wall
....thats what i have LOL. if anyone looked closely enough at my dvd collection it would be sooo obvious, there are heaps of gay and lesbian ones
2007-10-18 18:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you hear moaning from her room and she has one of her girlfriends over then yea shes licking them up and shes a lezzie or shes playing loaded questions.
2007-10-18 18:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by Guardian Jon 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you don't need to know. if she wants you to know she will tell you.
2007-10-18 18:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by crystal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ask her.
2007-10-18 17:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Franklin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her and don't be mad at her.
2007-10-19 03:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by Hazelnut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋