Am i a lesbian if i think tila tequila is EXTREMELY sexy?? i don't think any other girls are sexy besides her....
2007-10-18 16:31:12 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im 16 years old.
2007-10-18 16:31:38 · update #1
No, dear, lesbians want to be held by a woman. They want to be kissed by a woman. In their dreams, they see themselves married to a woman, holding her hair, feeling her body against their own.
They don't want men and find woman attractive.
Every straight person finds people of the same sex attractive. That's why there's all that competition and intimidation among guys and girls.
2007-10-18 16:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are a lesbian. Maybe you are simply attracted to beauty of all kinds... whether it be women, men, or nature. I myself have a small obsession with beauty and sometimes that includes some females... but that doesnt mean that your a lesbian... even if you are thats alright... but I wouldnt worry about tila tequila... she is very hot
2007-10-18 16:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by lacefranks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not say that you are a lesbian just because you think a woman is sexy.. but now if you find yourself wanting to spend your personal time with only a woman.. then I will have to say yes there is something abnormal about it.. I see some guys that I think are sexy.. but hey, I don't want to have sex with them.. I prefer the natural order of things.. male female.. there is nothing wrong with admiring another female.. nor is it un-natrual..but if your sexual desires are arroused by another woman.. well.. to me, thats pretty close to being gay.
2007-10-18 16:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by J. W. H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necceserily.
Do you find it hard to be attracted to males, even the ones that everyone else says are dead sexy?
And if you don't think any other girls are sexy, then you're most likely not a lesbian.
2007-10-18 16:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hun, your are no a lesbian if you think one girl or 100 girls are hot or sexy. It's normal for woman to think other woman are hot. Your a lesbian if you find yourself wanted in enter a romantic relationship with a woman as opposed to a man.
2007-10-19 02:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Mandie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about putting a label on yourself at such a young age?
But just because you think won woman looks hot, doesn't make you a lesbian. When you start feeling sexually attracted to the women or girls around you, that's when you could start exploring that avenue.
But for the time being jus chill out and enjoy the rest of your teen years. You've got plenty of time to find out who you are and how you feel.
2007-10-18 16:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by crystal_bubbles7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know the best answer to that. I find girls sexy all the time, often, I find myself commenting on girls' bodies a lot more than men. But I know I'm not a lesbian. It's just sometimes you can relate to female bodies (obviously cuz you're female!) I often look at models and admire them, and just stare...and wish I could look like them...lol but that's besides the point.
2007-10-18 16:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your not BORN a lesbian. Lesbian is a work for someone who falls in love or has sex with someone of the same sex. I was with females for seven years i think i know. I am now married and have a baby. Lesbians tend to want to have relationships with other women or thay just want to have sex with them. You are deffinatly not gay, if you only feel she is sexy and that is it.
2007-10-18 16:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who wouldn't find Tila Tequila extremely sexy?
2007-10-18 16:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by lilwestkid 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
It's only you who will be able to say if you're a lesbian or not. If you just find girls sexy, that doesnt mean you're a lesbian. It just means you appreciate women who are hot. If you find yourself sexually or romantically attracted to women, wanting to have a relationship with them, it might mean you're a lesbian, or a bisexual. :D
2007-10-18 17:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by Kare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋