What Is The Best Way For Someone To Show You...Your True Colors?

Question

BLAH BLAH BLAH: Actually, I'm not a cheater...just a loser. And I only have one friend :-)
Interesting projection????

JUDYSWEETFUNNY: Before you start publicly accusing my very, real friend (on her questions) of being “a fake” and “a scam”...I suggest you do a little research.

1.) Both my friend and I have Yahoo 360 pages; check them out.
2.) Look at the questions I answer and configure the odds.
3.) Read my actual Best Answers, perhaps you will discover there is no foul play after all.

Call me whatever you like...
But when you disrespect my friends...
I take this very personal...

We are here to have fun...
No one is trying to dupe you...
Relax...
Enjoy life...
:-))

JUDYSWEETFUNNY: We are not the same person. You are mistaken.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtGhuJY4dblgbTPB2nq4d.nty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071019125534AAzGuUv

Answer 1

Be honest with you.

It show you your true colors which may catch you off guard and demand that you tke a step back and look at who you are to this person.

It may seem like you are running away when in fact you are just looking for a moment of silence to clear your head of the shocking revelation that you have been hurting someone you never wanted to.

But a true friend will tell you the truth and figure out that it takes you time to process such a shocking thought.

Be honest is the answer, in time you will understand what they mean.

Answer 2

Wow, what is going on here, did we get off topic or what? I do not know why some of the answerers are so angry, I have answered your Q. for some time & see no evidence of "cheating" & I am having a hard time understanding this hostility? But I digress. All anyone need do at any point is tell me what you think, even if my first reaction is not what you had hoped, those that know me well know that I will look at anything & honestly go hunting to see if it is valid. I really am pretty much what you see is what you get. I have good days & bad, the same as all, but I have tremendous mouth control. That does not mean I will not call you on your stuff if needed, but that I always use timing. It takes a lot to get me angry, but when angry I practice mouth control, retreat, & will approach you when the time is right. I know this sounds too good to be true, but remember folks I'm old & have had a lot of practice. Thanks
PS, it's just Yahoo, can't we all just play nice, really!

Answer 3

You can only really show your true colours if you let yourself. One day, you'll find a friend or partner who accepts you as the way you are. I guess you just have to think back to a friend or a time where you were most yourself. Or where you think you were. People will always act differently depending on who they are around. This doesn't mean you're being fake, it just means your adjusting yourself a bit but you can still be 'you'. (Hope this is making sense!) E.g, you wouldn't swear around your grandma. You're still being yourself.
No-one can show you who you are, but they can help you come out of your shell. You really have to be comfortable with yourself. E.g, if you like metal, but all your friends like pop then that's fine. But don't change to fit them. And don't be embarrased by it. Be proud of your preferences and differences because that's YOU. No-one else can be you for you.
I went to a school where it was all Wranglers and Country Music. I like skate shoes and metal. I tried to fit in but I never could because I just wasn't like that. One day I decided stuff it- and I stuck to what I liked. I was a much happier person after that day and I think I'm a much better person too. I still had plenty of friends and I teased them back about their horrid choice of jeans!

Answer 4

This concept has troubled me for some time. This term "true colors" sends a signal that we are all a bunch of devious individuals poised for attack. Wolves in sheep's clothing so-to-speak. Hiding our character and personality behind a facade of illusion. As for me I think I have you down pretty good. I see the real you most of the time. Intellectual, deep, empathetic and well, just generally sweet. When you get angry, upset, lonely, giddy, vengeful, jealous, "moody" or anyone of the other attributes that are good or bad it isn't the true you. I mean why does that attribute which we don't embrace, but, due to outside forces, pops out from time to time, have to be "THE" true you? No, you are the one that I see every week. One of the contacts that I am looking for every time I pop on here. So to answer your question, the best way for me to show you your true colors, is to remind you that "that" personality that you exhibit everyday, every week, "IS" the true you. Lapses in judgment, anger, jealousy, bitterness, "moddy(ism)" etc... that isn't the real you. Yes it is part of us, and I mean "ALL" of us, but our "true colors" should bleed through any false fronts. As yours do!

Answer 5

When a friend becomes seriously ill your real self (true colors) will be tested. If you rally to that person's side, stick with him/her through thick and thin, right up to the time that they pass, or until they recover, your are a true friend indeed. Do you spend time by their side, keep in contact, pray for them, support the other caregivers, and be there for them, or do you fit them into your schedule when it is convenient. Whatever you do, it reveals your character. I personally have had the experience of being seriously ill, and I was overwhelmed with gratitude, sometimes to the point of tears of joy, when so many of my friends and acquaintances loved me and supported me. They showed their "true colors" and their character shined. Right now, I am a support person for a friend who has brain cancer. It is a privilege to be there for him, and a huge personal growth experience.

Answer 6

by "true colors" you mean: "the real me", I see. Well, first and foremost, in my case it's up to the person I relate to. Generally I am open [some say too open and to thrust full onwards others] when a certain liaison is build among us. This is necessary to build a specific level of confidence. When this bridge is build, the person I am talking with has just to be normally kind....I will NOT show him/her fake colors

Answer 7

I am the philosopher who defined categorical honesty.

Of course I can learn from someone else's idea or take on things, but my true colors are what you get.

All the time--unless I decide to tailor the show to someone's feelings who isn't ready for the whole truth. I live my life for me, and then among others. Self-assertion--no form of tyranny, no form of slavery.
Respect.

Answer 8

Well honey, when one's either drunk or angry, that's where one's inner self may betray oneself and thus, the true colors appear just like that though.

Cheers and have a nice week ahead :)

Answer 9

What if the male adult bengal tiger were introduced to the africa.?
and the tiger saw a nomad / lone male lion what will happen

Answer 10

Show up in the first place

I have zero tolerance for bull