Is this normal!???
When we got married we had great sex life, and then it slowly got boring!!! really boring!!! Then we went on vacation and it got good again, i mean the best!!!
But for the past couple weeks, ive been feeling weird, like it pissed me off when my husband touches me, like my boobs or below, or when he try's to have sex with me, i feel disgusted!!!
It felt like i was in bed with a stranger, a person i never met before. I dont know what to do, he is a men and he needs it everyday, and i just dont want it. The scary thing is that i think that i dont want it with him. :(
We've been through a lot together, and we really are trying to make this work. We got in a big fight couple of days ago and i packed my things and just wanted to leave, and he begged me not too, so i stayed, but it feels like it turned something off in me!!! there is no spark.
We've been fighing a lot lately, about small, stupid stuff, and i just real
2007-10-18 15:03:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Could it be that you're pregnant and don't know it yet?
I went through a similar situation with my husband - except I was actually pretty evil towards him - for no apparent reason. I would pick fights and EVERYTHING he did was wrong. Any time he came near me I felt like my skin was electrically charged, and not in a good way . I also packed my bags and almost left. Same thing - he begged me to try to work things out so I stayed.
Long of the short - it turned out I was preggo and my hormones were making me - how should I put this- Irritable?! Luckily it was short lived and we were ready for it the second time around.
2007-10-18 17:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by crisagi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yall should go to a counseler and talk about the way you feel because it could mean a numerous things that is wrong with you it could be something in youre past that is haunting you so yall should talk about it because i felt like that too but it was because i was raped when i was young and for some reason when we would be making love it would come back to me everytime and i had to get help now im doing great good luck and best wishes
2007-10-18 22:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by lil momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is not all about sex, but a man needs releif, so does a woman, maybe its time you talk to a counsler since it is you that does not wish to be touched. this happens at times but you can over come it if you truley love your husband and children if any.
2007-10-19 08:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In addition to seeing a counselor, see a doctor. Many things can rob your libido, like high blood pressure, diabetes, thyroid, hormone imbalance, all of which are treatable.
2007-10-18 22:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋