girls only!!??

Question

have you ever liked a boy but had to keep quit about it. and if so why? i have liked boys before,but when i see him i get all woblly in the knees and i heard a rumor that he is moving and when i think about that i almost get sick.PLEASE HELP ME!!??

buy the way all the boys i have liked r 14 so is he i am to shy to go up and ask him IT IS SO BAD I CANT EVEN SPEAK TO HIM.PLEASE HELP ME PLS!!??

i dont think he feels the same way i do but i dont know for shure

Answer 1

Hey hon :)
Trust me I know what you're feeling. I like this boy and even though he isn't moving (speak of the devil: he just texted me :D) I get all nervous around him even though we're best friends. Don't worry about it, but if you would like to date him, just make sure he's a nice guy and that you won't get your heart broken. If he's moving it doesn't matter, because nothing really matters in love.

Answer 2

Since you have absolutely NO control over whether or when he moves, you will live on if it happens.

Yes I liked a boy and never told anyone. It's still a secret 40 years later. And I liked one who moved away. I liked him for three years before he moved. I don't know if he ever knew.

I survived all that. You will too. When you are actually ready to be involved in a relationship with a boy or a man, you will be able to talk to him. Up until then, it's ok to just dream and have shaky knees. Enjoy life!

Answer 3

Yes I,ve liked a boy and had to keep quiet because he had a girlfriend. That is so horrible and heartbreaking. If the boy you like doesn´t have a girlfriend you have to tell him before he leaves. You don´t loose anything. If he likes you back you can stay in touch even if he leaves. If he doesn´t he wil leave and you won´t have to worry about being embarrased. The important thing in life is to atleast try to get what you want and knowing that you did the most you could to achieve it. Trust me there is no worst question in live as: " If I would have told him, would my life be different." The worst is not knowing what could have happened if you would have had the courage to tell him about your feelings. Nothing to loose except finding out the truth.
Big kiss!!!!

Answer 4

Oh, man!!!!

I've been in that exact same situation...There was this guy I liked Andrew, a neighbor of mine and since I could remember I ALWAYS liked him and he moved about a week or 2 ago and I never told him...So I didn't get to see what would happen if I told him, and since have regretted it.....*Sniffles* I think you should try and tell him......^_^

Answer 5

Well, i did like this boy once and on June 5th,2007, I left to Thailand and after i came back he was gone and 4 u, you should come out of ur shell quik and tell hime how you feel about him.

Answer 6

Go get him girl before he's gone. There is nothing wrong with the female being assertive. If you like him & want to get to know him you had better make a point to do just that especially if he is moving away. .......don't be shy.....Good Luck.

Answer 7

Yea, i liked a boy but i kept quiet because i didn't know if he liked me... now i'm sad cus i moved..
what you should do- Just ask him out!!! 90% of boys want THE GIRLS TO ASK THEM OUT!!(they are afraid of being rejected) If he says, no (which i doubt), pretend it never happened and let it go. But if he says yes...... ;)

Answer 8

you should just walk up and talk to him. Like about football or a movie or something.Guys seem to like girls that are very straight forward. Be his friend. Even then, if he does move, you can stay intouch with him.

Answer 9

This is totally normal. It happens to everyone. As time goes by, talking to boys get's a lot easier.

Answer 10

Speaking from experience- tell him you like him. If he likes you, GREAT! if not (and he's moving) you won't have to be embarassed forever. If he's not into you and not moving, TRUST ME- you'll get over it. If he does like you, he could end up being the love of your life!