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2007-10-18 14:16:13 · 30 answers · asked by twinshavingfun 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

30 answers

she is a lesbian....
and how do u know?
have u witnessed it b4>
wats ur proof?

2007-10-18 18:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If she's under 18 year's old then you should approach her like a girl that is sleeping with anyone. Tell her that she should wait until she's more mature. If she's 18 or over, the decision is no longer yours to make. If you have a problem with it you need to sit and think about why you have a problem with it and perhaps talk to someone outside of the situation like a therapist.

2007-10-18 21:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0 0

Well to start with how old is your daughter?? And how did you find out?

If she's young she may just be experimenting and it's nothding serious. Or this may be how she wants to be.

If you found out because she told you, great talk to her. If you found out another way. Going through her stuff then you may need to try and get her to open up slowly, but make sure your understanding and willing to accept what her answers might be. My brother is gay, and it was demanded that he stop. It burnt him so much inside. Because it was not understanding he got, but a demand to not be himself.
I hope she can be honest and upfront with you. Good Luck.

2007-10-18 21:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by shaelene 2 · 1 0

depends how old she is if she is like 17-18 have a talk about safe sex but im sure shes just experimenting and finding herself right now, at least you dont have to worry about pregnancy and at least shes honest with you. but if shes like 14-15 thats not exceptable behavior to sleep with anyone and you need to tell her shes not ready and to wait until shes older to act this way

2007-10-18 21:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by estrellita 5 · 0 0

I am 18, and a senior in high school. Personally i would talk to her about her choices. Ask her why she feels like she does. Does she truely like girls or is she doing it because she feels like boys do not like her.. either way support her choices.. i guess if shes sexually active i would stress safe sex practies.. inform her that STDS are easly transmittable and to be safe...
Good luck..

2007-10-18 21:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kelsey C 2 · 2 0

How old is she? She could be just going through a faze.....
talk to her about it if you normally talk to her about everything and if she normally comes to you for advice.

Dont try and get answers, she will probably turn the blind eye.

If shes young (12-17) its just experimentation.
if shes older maybe thats what she likes???

need a bit more info

2007-10-18 21:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by 1 kidlet & due in 9 weeks 4 · 0 0

10% of women do. She's your daughter, love & support her no matter what. That's what parents are for.

2007-10-19 08:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Talk to her about it as soon as you can! If you feel this is morally not right, its time to tell her about it. If I were in your situation, I would be very troubled. Make sure your daughter knows that she still needs to be aware of STDs, etc. Good luck.

2007-10-18 21:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

i hate to tell u this
but the more u pressure her to stop
the more she is going to rebel against you
talk about Dental Dams
they are a safe way to preform oral sex on women
without contracting STD
http://www.undercovercondoms.com/Condoms/Types/Dental-Dams/15/dental-dams.html
here's a site were u and she can buy them
its important to tell her how u feel
but don't push her to the point were she wont come to you

2007-10-18 21:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I had "sex" with girls from 13 to about 18 and I turned out as homosexual as they come.
We were always curious and at that age it was healthier and more fun to be with girls than to deal with the dating game.
When I finally met a guy I liked, I grew away from it..
But who knows, she could be a lesbian..
And if you don't support her, you wouldn't be doing your job as a parent.
Your children are not your children
They are the sons and daughters of life's longing for itself.

2007-10-18 21:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by 1110011100 3 · 3 3

u should talk 2 ur daughter.

2007-10-18 22:09:22 · answer #11 · answered by Erica 4 · 0 0

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