When the HEART BREAKS should it make a crashing SOUND to feel better....?

Question

or better leave the "BREAKING" unheard?

Does the heart HEALS faster with EXPRESSED ANGUISH or SILENCED AGONY?

Answer 1

Http://www.hearmath.org and Joseph Chilton Pearce's "The Biology of Transcendence" teach about the demonstrated science that the heart's electromagnetic field is about 1,000 times stronger than the brain's. And, that the heart's flexibility, when it informs the brain, produces a healthier person. Too much headucation makes for rigidity.

Some other heart-wisdom books: "Climb the Highest Mountain," Mark L. Prophet;

"Creation: Artistic and Spiritual," and "Love and Sexuality," Omraam Mikhael Aivanhov;

"Kundallini West" and "Watch Your Dreams," Ann Ree Colton.

"Expecting Adam," Martha Beck; this is an absolutely heart-warming, wise and funny book, and ought to be read by anyone who's balancing love and wisdom, career and family, and so on;

"Extraordinary Knowing," Elizabeth Mayer, Ph.D.;

"The Master of Lucid Dreams" and "Entering the Circle," Olga Kharitidi, M.D.

"Mary Baker Eddy: Christian Healer," Yvonne von Fettweis;

"Autobiography of a Yogi," Paramahansa Yogananda ()

"Tortured for Christ," Reverend Richard Wurmbrand;

"And There Was Light," Jacques Lusseyran;

"The Great Divorce," C. S. Lewis.

There are others, but divine and healing Love shines through these authors words and works; checking any two or three will confirm the value of sometimes crying out like Jeremiah, sometimes keeping peace. If the anguish is purifying, cleansing, it tends to heal. If it is angry, repetitive, it doesn't. If silent agony allows love within, it heals; if silence is suppression, it doesn't.

The books permit a dialogue if your heart's love wishes to speak along with theirs; or, a silent witness to another's love and suffering, with reflection more on own agony.

best regards, these people care, and are helpful,

j.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Silenced Agony -- Definately.
I say this Because When you allow the heart to be decieved in Healing that is made vocal, you allow your heart exposure to opinions, gossip, HINDRANCES, external people who gock/gaze because of the information you gave to friends who didn't keep it within their network, etc.
This is the next stage that will determine whether the heart will make a crashing sound as determined by your descision to conceal or reveal the matter that caused the suffering initially. To allow the breaking to be unheard relies on Silence which can in and of itself cause self emotional pain. A spouse is always a good option to disclose your feelings and trials to, for a spouse usually has more contact and knows the heart more familiar. Furthermore, he/she can assist in the transition of grief, denial, anguish and plan accordingly so the heart will be made stronger for future episodes.
It is not so much in how the heart breaks, moreso do you have the expressed or silenced strategies to mend, glue, and pick the pieces up. Yeah, it will heal.

Answer 4

I'm going to give an endorsement to j153E's answer, because the book "And There Was Light" by Jacques Lusseyran was mentioned. This is the most beautiful and inspirational book I have ever read. He was the blind leader of the French Resistance during WWII, and he is so completely positive throughout the book it makes a huge positive impressoin on you. It's as good for you as any friend because it lifts up your heart. I wanted to make it last forever. I read just a page or two of it every night before I went to sleep until I finished it.

I think the heart does heal more quickly, when you allow yourself to vent a bit and express your anguish. It's not helpful to give yourself fully over to grief so you destroy your other friendships or can't function at all, but crying and venting can help you. Suffering in silence just burries pain and negative feelings and is NEVER the solution.

Answer 5

Imagine the global impact. The level of sound of all those broken hearts would be so great as to destabilize society.

If indeed the sound of one heart breaking was audible, it would have to be more than just a crashing sound. It would have to go on and on, because a heart may break in a moment but it stay broken and continues breaking for time afterwards.

And the sound level would have to match the pain, so it would sound like a 747 flying over at about 50 feet. LOUD! And PAINFUL. Maybe the hurt feeling like drops in a deep well, but their sound would echo because of the depth of pain.

Healing. I believe expression leads to healing much more than stuffing it and silently bearing it. However, healing is made up of both expression and silence. Stand upon a shoreline with the waves crashing, a winter beach with a pounding surf driven by gale force winds and scream!!!!!!!!!! As well as the silence of sitting on a hillside observing a mother deer and fawn -- I'm so still and silent they don't notice me. Healing comes in unexpected ways.

GUARD your heart; it is the wellspring of life Prov. 4:23

Answer 6

the human heart is not made of glass or metal to make a crashing sound.
the heart thrives with love. it heals faster when the anguish is expressed.
silenced agony is like a slow poison. the bottled emotions takes the toll and results in heart breaks.
the heart heals faster when you share your agony. the venting out is essential to move on. the pent up frustration and agony will eventually explode sometime or the other. so it is better to tackle the negative emotions. love and forgiving puts an end to the agony.

Answer 7

I don't know in all honesty as matters in the heart are very complicated and each person deals with it differently I don't think that making a crashing sound would make it feel better. However, I do believe that each person is different, some prefer to heal in silence and others prefer to express their pain. For myself I prefer to express my pain out loud, I use to silence my emotions and by doing this I also buried them never really allowing them to have time to heal so now I express them and I also except the pain so that I can begin the process of healing. Whether you express it or silence it, you have to admit it to yourself before you can heal, the rest is just about personal choice of how you wish to heal.

Wow the one above me just said it so beautiful and true. I love their answer.

Answer 8

It should, for most people. You have to let things out in order to release the pressure. If depression is blood, and your heart is sown shut, if you keep adding more and more blood to it without letting anything out, it'll eventually burst beyond repair. Yes, it might cause even more anguish because you're screaming your head off and getting yourself all this mad energy, but you're letting it all out- it doesn't matter.

However, for some people, silenced agony is better for them, because it fades quicker, and the heart on its own, over time, slowing pumps the emotions out, and eventually the only thing left is a faded, washed memory.

It just depends on how much self control, self esteem, will power, and "heart capacity" you have, and how big the accident was

EDIT
some people also heal their heart with another love. For example, if heartbreak is purple blood, and pure love is red blood, they flood their heart with a new, pure and passionate red blood to flood out their purple, vile, depressing love, however, I'm not sure the "rescue" loves are meant to last. Just meant to help a heart pull through and keep pump;ing

Answer 9

I'm going with expressed anguish. I have not only a broken heart but spirit right now.

I think that the more I talk about it, the more I cry, the more I get angry, the better I feel!

Answer 10

If it wants too.
The heart heals faster if it's anguish is expressed by you because bottling it up just leads to silenced agony.