i was involve with someone very special to me for 5 years. i lived with her and her family for 4 of those year. At first it was great. We always wanted to be each other. We could always talk about anything except our future together.
it wasn't unit a fews ago after being apart for five months now that we where both suffering from esteem problems. One- to be able to be loved.
Truth is we both felt very unsure of where we where going in life both in love and also in life in general.
We both still feel very comfortable with one another when we get together for a night. But i think there is some fear of being hurt again.
Is it possible there is no love left in her? she want different things in life? I've discovered since apart that i appreciate the quilties in her that hadn't realized in did until we were apart.
Is it possible that time can heal things - too become close again?
2007-10-18 12:31:49 · 2 answers · asked by jaco9028 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What you need to realize is getting back together with her is not the magical solution to your problems.
The solution to your problem is simply be honest with yourself. Quit living in denial of the facts.
Good. Luck.
2007-10-18 12:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important thing is that you still love her. Tell her that you can't live without her and pledge your love to her, send her flowers make special time with her.
However, you did not say what the reason was for splitting apart in the first place. I hope it was not because of your infidelity.
2007-10-18 12:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋