Majorly long problem .. i need help with my friend / ex. friend?

Question

For this question, you kind of need all the details, so I’m going to start at the beginning, 3 years ago and work progressively toward today, giving you the intricate details of every day…. Okay, no i’m not. It does start three years ago however and I tend to drag on a little so try and be patient.
When I was in grade 6, I was friends with this group of girls. We were close; there was about seven of us. One of the girls was going out with a guy named Brandon. Now there was this other ‘group’, (we weren’t as cliquish as i’m making this sound) one of the girls was named Meghan and we all hated her because she wanted Brandon. Problem was Brandon wanted her too. Anyway, we didn’t know that. So Brandon and me made this plan, I was going to call Meghan and tell her Brandon and Rebecca broke up and he wanted to go out with her. When she said yes, Brandon was going to call her and tell her off for being such a mean friend to Rebecca. Rebecca knew about this but wasn’t happy about it. more..

happened Brandon, the big idiot he is decided to stay with Meghan. Here starts the Brandon-Meghan saga.
Two years later, (last year if you’re not keeping up) Meghan and me were BEST friends. We did absolutely everything together. She’s still going out with Brandon and me and him do not like each other. We agreed to put up with each other for Meghan. I think he’s an arrogant pr*ck and he thinks i’m a tight, smart ***. Among other things. Meghan and Brandon had been messing around a bit, they were making out and he fingered her. Around May, there was a party that the two of them went to and I didn’t, I went to a different one with another friend. Don’t as why, I don’t remember. A week later, I started hearing rumors about her haven *** on her shirt. I knew she’d started blowing him off because she’d told me. She never finished though. So I knew it was all bullsh*t. the person who told me was my cousin and a guy who liked me. I didn’t want them to get in **** with Brandon. He has a ten

tendency to punch people who cross Meghan, unless it’s a girl. Ha-ha, anyway when I wouldn’t tell her she flipped, and somehow got the idea I said she had *** on her shirt, I told her but now she has a whole other group of friends and so do I. We still talk some, she gets me drinks and I talk to Brandon about drugs and stuff he’s into, tells him off for it really. But we are not friends. Also, she’s haven a rough time now cause her mom is dying from cancer. I really want to be her friend again and help her with this but I don’t know how. Any ideas / advice / comments are welcome. Thanks!

Brandon is a great guy. He doesn’t sound like it maybe but he would never never ever hurt Meghan and he is honestly the best thing that ever happened to her and vice versa. He’s sweet (and very very hot, lol) and she’s in love with him. Don’t say anything about him because they’re in it for good, they’ve gone through a lot of **** and they’re okay so he is NOT the problem.

* And yes, I am half in love with him but that’s staying in side me, no one else knows except Meghan knows I USED TO like him. I can’t jeopardize him and Meghan. I won’t. And he doesn’t like me anyway, I don’t think anyway. I’m probably more then half in love with him but nothing is going to happen

Thanks for taking the time , please help me !

Answer 1

Wow your pretty damn good with word for your age! That aside you've LOVED Brandon for awhile, buddy. Sorry its the nature of love, remember this "So Brandon and me made this plan" You skipped over a lot of history to make that phrase. He was WITH someone else at the time (trying to poke fun here, o yea sorry about my spelling, grammer, and my completely LACK of being good with word) but you just "forgot" that name of that certain lady he was with... hmmmm I get the impression that there was a little friendship starting there and you help'd him ALOT thru that to make this "saga" possible, you did that out of understanding him and what you preceved he needed, LOVE baby girl makes compassion like that. ALL that aside understand from now on that love is an emotion, a simple powerful thing, its job, make you FEEL! All kinds of stuff, even the rest of the emotions, something people don't really understand, these feels that come from the simple motivation force which is love, intense hunnie! but you know..... I digress, your one heck of a friend, go to her be honest, you can speck it pretty decently for, I guess grade 9? 3 years right? But this brandon charater is going to be quite a player in your life weather your with him or not, loves like that, but your doing good to hanlde it, normal stuff now. Just keep those hopes, those fantasy under control, and hey what happens, happens, sagas have an ending, life is long......