Is your husband the greatest lover you've ever been in bed with??
I love my husband, and I know I married the right guy, but I can't honestly say he's the "very best" in bed of any man I've ever had sex with.
On a 1-10 scale (1 being the best, 10 being the worst) where would you rate your guys performance in the sack overall (taking into account all the other sexual partners you may have had in your life). I figure alot of women will say "1" but I don't really buy it in most cases. They probably just don't have alot to compare it to. I think I've only had like one partner in my whole life that I could really say was a "1". I've had sex with 12 different men in my life, and I'm 28 years old. So it's not like i've been THAT promiscuous. LOL!!
2007-10-18 11:22:06 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First things first.
No my husband is not the greatest lover I have ever had.
But that's why I love him, because our relationship involves so many other things than sex, that they all balance out.
And he is usually a 3. because he ALWAYS takes care of me first!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-18 11:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bad_Kity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beginning with 1 as the lower number to being the best sex is kinda ridiculous to me i would have gone 1 being the worst and 10 being the best but I guess you go against the grain in everything else in life so why not on this scale thing as well.
I can quite honestly state that my 2nd husband is/was the best lover I have ever had , he was more passionate , thoughtful , into touching and trying new thing's , his adventuresome side rocked my world especially after a low status sex life in my 1st marriage , and wether you choose to believe it or not about him being the best is up to you only i know for sure who was the best i've had.I'm 35 and do have a few to compare him to .
If I'd known he was going to be this awesome when I dated him when I was 13, 14 and 15 I would have married him not my 1st husband and I wouldnt have wasted my time on the previous lover's in between him and my 1st husband.
2007-10-18 12:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The husband I have right now is the 6th man I have been to bed with and he will be the last. I am already 53 years old.
I can honestly say that my husband, on a scale of 1-10 with 10 being the worst and 1 the best -my husband is a -5 if you get my drift.........fantastic!!!!!!!!!!! I did not know what sex was till I met him - by the way he is 6 years younger than I am
Eat your hearts out girls
2007-10-18 11:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by mn lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not cross that fine thin line into the point of no return. You will change into a different person. You will no longer be what you used to be originally. Do be careful because there are some very sneaky crazy people out there that will sweet talk you, seduce you, hypnotize you or lure you into this. I kid you not! I am serious as a heartbeat and get these thoughts away from you head. This is like one of those vampire movies out there. Once your bitten you screwed for life. You have been forewarned. Think about your 3 kiddos, they are your world and keep it that way. Concentrate on your family, they are first top priority in your life. How would you like for your very own kiddos growing up and doing this too? You know there is a very good reason why GOD wired up women far differently than us men in general, because of stuff like this happening. As complicated as this sounds, this could very well be the reasons why some relationships breakdown and backfire.
2016-05-23 11:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is by far the best lover i have ever had in everything. on a 1 to 10 he would be a 1. i had 6 in total and he is by far the best. and im not jsut saying it coz he is my husband now. i might not be in double digits but i have been with men that range in the number of their partners, one thought a lot of himself and was proud of his "accomplishments" didnt do much for me though. :) so yes my husband is the greatest. ( you did say 1 being the best right??!!)
2007-10-18 11:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband #1 --"3"
Husband #2 -- "7"
Husband #3 -- "8"
(If it's a scale of 1-10)
2007-10-18 11:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I married my husband I had a lot of lovers,but it was nothing just sex. I had lovers do anything I wanted .It was nothing. I've been married twice before and it was nothing . I'm 46years old and my husband is 28yrs. We been together for 8yrs. and can honestly say he is the best ever. Not only the sex we have but, the love we make.
2007-10-18 11:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a guy - but I would agree with you.
My wife's about a 4 on average. I've only been with one gal in college that I would classify as a 1. She was extremely into it - adventerous, crazy ?!?!? Problem is (like probably with most guys you gals would rate a 1) - she was sooooo unstable outside the bedroom that a long term relationship with her was an impossibility !!!
Freak in the sack = Freak in the rest of life !!
I hung in for 8 months tho.... because it was SOOOOO amazing !
2007-10-18 11:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by aa889d 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my husband
in bed he gets 10/10--great in bed
for cuteness 10/10-- soo cute
pain in the *** 10/10-- a huge pain in the ***
as a friend 7/10-- one of my best friends
listener 7/10-- listens (when not sleeping)
domesticated 5/10
for huffy modd swingness 3/10--(big kid!!)
sex isn't everything, it is a great part of it, but not all of it x
lol it's a pity the don't come with these kinda measurments it would save a lot of hastle
2007-10-18 11:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by Missy Me xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is the only guy I've ever slept with. And while he's not the greatest at sex, I know what to ask for (and get it) and my love and deep attraction for him overrides the fact that he gets more out of sex than I do.
2007-10-18 11:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by writeaway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋