Does anyone else Find it wrong that your wife goes out with other guys. explain. Movies, Dinner? Jsut wondering what ever one take is. Thanks
2007-10-18 11:01:06 · 23 answers · asked by divingstephen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband doesn't care. My friends are just that....my friends. He knows them. He's friends with them. If he wants to go with us he is more than welcome to come. Most of the time he does, sometimes he doesn't. Trust. Communication.
Good grief I'm married not in a prison lock down.
2007-10-18 11:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Are you the stay at home type who when he gets home from work, kicks off his shoes, sits on the couch with a beer and watches tv until time to go to bed? If so then perhaps your wife is looking for more of something you are not providing her. Does she work or is she a "housewife" for want of a better word? If so then she's telling you she needs to get out of the house and if you're not interested in taking her to dinner and the movies, then she'll find someone else who is interested in doing those things with her. It won't be long before she starts coming home later and later, because after the "movie" they find other activities to share.
My advice: Get off the couch, show your wife how much you love her, and do something with her, even if you're too tired, find the energy and do it. That is if you want to keep your marriage together. If that's not important to you then keep going as you are and it'll be over soon.
If going out is too much then make up for it by getting romantic at home take away her desire to leave the house because being in the house is just way tooooooo much fun.
Either way you decide to go or a mixture of both would be best and in your best interest but get off your A S S and do something.
The answer is NO it is not right that she does it but there has to be a reason behind it.
2007-10-18 18:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cliff R 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You say other guys! Like how many? That's just weird! Why would your wife be going out with other guys, unless they are family, or maybe a very close family friend! NO WAY MAN! It is definitely wrong!
2007-10-22 10:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by J S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have many guy friends, but I would never go out to dinner and/or movies alone with them, maybe with a group, but my man would always be invited because I would have nothing to hide besides my man is also my bestfriend why wouldn't I want him to be part of my dinner/movie, or evening plans. Yes, I think it is emotionally and morally wrong for a wife to do that without her husband by herside. If she goes out with all girls, I would think that to be okay.
2007-10-18 18:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I learned my lesson with this one. I thought that it was okay, because all it ever was, was friendship. Nothing more. Needless to say I don't and won't go out with other men, friends or not. I would be angry if I knew that my SO was going out with girls. It is never a good situation to be going out with the opposite sex. You should be going too with them. And if she doesn't want you there, then that is a problem. But no your wife shouldn't be going to movies and dinner, those are things that you and her should be doing. And if you can't, then she should wait until you can. When your in a relationship or married, things change. She isn't single. Therefore she shouldn't be doing whatever she wants to be doing.
2007-10-18 18:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I agree with Cope_ace. The guy has to be gay. Some women need this. But the husband needs to know and also be aquainted with the gay guy, as in him coming over for dinner. If I didn't feel the gaydar, then , "Lucy, you got some esplaining to do!!!"
2007-10-18 18:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When was the last time you took her out ?
NO she shouldnt be doing it and if she is its because your not willing to , men seem to forget that just because you have the ring on her finger and she has your last name , and you have kids , bills , committments doesnt mean you cant go out and act like your dating it sickens me.
2007-10-18 18:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you are married that is unacceptable behavior. Unless it is a relative she should not be doing that. Talk to her and explain how you feel about her doing this! Or you may go out with some other women to see how she feels about that. She may not realize what she's doing to you. Good luck :)
2007-10-18 18:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
My woman would never do that. Her reason is probably because she knows how much she would hate it if I was going out with other chicks. If she did do it, I wouldn't care. As long as she knows how to show me the proper respect, she has the freedom to do whatever she wants.
2007-10-18 18:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
i am a married woman, and i have a few very close guy friends. i have had these friends alot longer than i have known my husband. i wouldnt give them up for anything in the world! i do, however, see that my husband is very comfortable with these friends, and that was discussed early in the relationship. he is fine with it, and he is ALWAYS invited to go where ever we go. sometimes, he goes, sometimes, he wont. but, he is always welcome to go!
2007-10-18 18:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋