I broke up with my live in boyfriend of almost three years. He and I share mutual friends. Now my good girlfriends that he was friends with as well are hanging out alot. One even went on a double date with him and his new chick. I was really hurt and felt betrayed. A few have also stayed over at his house(they did this before when we were dating) and two even slept in our old bed with him. What do you think?
2007-10-18 10:49:03 · 8 answers · asked by Kelli H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it is completely natural to feel upset. you are only human.
if your friends are really mutual, you cannot expect them to be completely loyal to you, and ignore the feelings of your ex. however, you sould expect them to be sensitive to your feelings.
talk to them! chances are they have no idea that their behavior is upsetting you. if they seem to care little about the way that you are feeling, then maybe you need to reevaluate their friendship.
2007-10-18 10:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were mutual friends with the both of you then there isnt really any reason for them to choose sides in this. As long as they are still being friends with you too, then I dont see anything wrong with it. If it was your best friend then I could see a problem, but you said mutual with the two of you. I wouldnt make them get in the middle of this. You could lose good friends possibly. If they however arent being friendly with you then, who cares about them? It would seem that they chose your ex! hope this helped?
2007-10-18 17:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Susan F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need better friends.All people care about now adays are good looks and sex and friendship is in the toilet when there an opportunity for sex with a good looking guy or gal.
If you want a guy to commit to you, then youll have to make him marry you BEFORE sex.Also, if your friends will flirt with your b/f they arent friends.However, he wasnt married to you or anything so he was available to date whoever he wanted even though you lived together.Shacking isnt the same as a marriage committment hon.
2007-10-18 17:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need new friends. They should've asked beforehand if it was ok with you. They sound cruel and insensitive, or are after your ex.
2007-10-18 18:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really have broken up, then you wouldnt care, right? Because he is not your boyfriend anymore.
2007-10-18 17:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you worried about there only sluts. there not friends ether.just get on with your life. and forget about them.
2007-10-18 17:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty mean, how long ago did u break up?
2007-10-18 17:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just live your life and let him live his
2007-10-18 17:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by KillerBill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋