If I'm having a phase (I'm a 15yo girl) but when I really stop to think about it I couldn't be with a girl in the long run...
2007-10-18 09:52:30 · 9 answers · asked by marie_the_blue 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're too young to try to label your self. You need to grow, have life experiences, and just relax. Time will tell! Don't be in such a rush to throw a label on your self. I don't know why people are so into doing that these days.
2007-10-18 09:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by honeyb 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're 15 years old.
Consider yourself straight until a sincere love relationship develops in adulthood, and act your normal self-same-way.
Many have same-sex crushes on people of their own gender during their high school years.
Crushes are rarely the basis of a lasting love.
2007-10-18 17:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Bobby Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be bisexual, or you could just be in the throes of teenage hormones. Don't worry so much about labeling yourself one thing or another...you aren't defined by your sexuality, it's just another facet of who you are. If you feel attracted to someone, let yourself at least consider why you're attracted, how you're attracted (physical/sexual or emotional, etc), etc.
Just don't get too hung up on "what am I???"...it's not worth losing sleep over. Be who you are, love who you love, and be attracted to who you're attracted to...the labels just serve to create stress and fit your whole identity into a neat little box.
2007-10-18 16:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a phase but nothing the matter with likeing both guys and girls.You have tons of years to figure of who you are attacted to.
2007-10-18 16:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, explore and follow your heart. You will figure out who you are soon enough. Be true to who you are and you will lead a good life.
2007-10-18 16:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Auntie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur straight and just fooled by the media pushindg homosexuality (shows like gay stright or taken and will and grace)
They dessensitise u too it through comedy etc
2007-10-18 16:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF your attracted to girls your a lesbo. no offense. thats probly what you dont want to hear. but there is no such thing as a "phase" especially being 15. in the end you choose if you want to live a normal straight life or not
good luck
2007-10-18 16:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by DA_kiDD 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You are probably straight. Women are pretty creatures, but honestly, what woman wouldn't want to be with a man? They balance us out. When I am a crazy woman, my hubby is the rational calm one. They are the ying to our yang.
It is great to have girlfriends, but that is at far as it goes.
2007-10-18 16:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by lefttheroom222 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well lots of people are bi-sexual. this could be you, you could just sway a little more to the straight side
2007-10-18 16:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by jup540 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋