Okay I'm almost 16, and me and my b/f have been dating for a while, and he what's to start having sex, and I do but then I don't, I never had sex before and I just don't no if I'm ready or not, and if my mom finds out that i did have sex with him she would freak out. So if you have any suggestions on what I should do, plz tell and help me out here.
2007-10-18 08:29:23 · 9 answers · asked by ♫Megan♫ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, you should ONLY do what you are ready and willing to do, so if you are still feeling confused about whether or not to have sex with your boyfriend, DON'T! you can always wait another day or another week or another month or another year! But once you lose your virginity, you can't get it back, so be sure you are ready to have sex. Don't let him pressure you into doing it if you aren't 100% sure, and if he does pressure you and say things like "you would if you loved me" then tell him "you wouldn't pressure me if you loved me" - and you never have to prove your love for someone in that way. Please be careful! If you do decide you are ready, then have safe sex and use a condom.
2007-10-18 08:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by joanng72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off babee dont listen to these OLD as$ people that say "wait till your married" you can get married at 12 in KS and 15 in florida but whatever . If you're ready i say go head and talk to you're mom before and say "mom I really love ___ and i think were ready for sex, im not doing it to be "cool" were inlove and hey you knew this would happen someday . I just wanted you to be a part of my life so i could tell you whats going on ." You can buy you're own condoms at kroger . Or get her to whateverr . BUT make sure there "life style" you WONT get pregnant on those for sure :] also you dont have to use birth control either thats bull . Trust me I know . Also you're not to young either the common age now days people is 14 YEARS OLD! Oh and use protection or it will hurt a lil moree .
2007-10-20 20:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
it's too early for doing sex
and it's better to get marride first when get +18 and you build you future
-because the life is not a game not all you want you will get
please dear for your safty use the write way and think in your brian not your spacial funs and dreams
but very good for you that you think before you do some think wrong
ok wish you the god luck&life
2007-10-18 08:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ha to ask i dont think you are ready! Losing your vergingity is a big thing, if you dont feel that you are ready then dont. I was much younger than you are now when i lost mine, and i wish i hadn't! but if you are having dobuts then your not ready
2007-10-18 09:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♥M.C. Spider Monkey♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure if you are ready then you aren't. You should wait until you are absolutely sure you are ready. And don't let him pressure you into it. If he really cares for you then he will wait until you are ready.
2007-10-18 09:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by *Dreamer* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay. first of all who tells there parents. unless you get preggy. or and std. but i wouldnt do it cuz then it gets out and you become a slut. your virginity is a gift. keep that gift as long as you can cuz if you give that gift to the wrong guy you dont have a gift to give to the right guy. so you just buy him a sweater. and thats lame.
2007-10-18 08:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you even have to ask this question that means you are not ready. DO NOT LET HIM PRESSURE YOU INTO DOING SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT READY FOR!
2007-10-18 08:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by concerned citizen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not ready... and When you're not--you shouldn't..
Wait until you're ready, use protection, and remember , you have the most to lose....
2007-10-18 08:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have it..i waz in the same situation last yr!once done..u wont regret it!lol =D
2007-10-18 08:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋