There's this girl who works at my place, she is 15, I am 16. We were getting on well and then I found out she has like a 19 year old boyfriend with a fast car and most likely facial hair and a big penis. Seriously though, these guys must be complete retards to go out with someone 4 years younger than themselves. Its annoying because they are taking all the lasses that are my age. What next, I'll probably be going out with 11 year olds?
2007-10-18 08:09:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
:) Girls like older guys typically because they have all of the cool impressive toys BUT just you wait, this guy is probably an ****** and she will find out the hard way soon enough. Any 19 year old guy who is dating 15 year olds is an idiot.
2007-10-18 08:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by katiebug 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Watch that age! If you're not careful you'll be heading for serious troubles that you can't undo, and that, will follow you through the rest of your life.
You're right - Some guys really ARE stupid and only think with one body part - the head they carry below the belt line. That IS Stupid!
You're only 16 - be pateint and you'll find the right girl.
Fast cars and a big penis doesn't make a guy a man.
His respect for himself and others deserving respect, (not everyone deserves respect), their sensitive nature, and a genuine caring heart and clear judgemnet works much better. So "Don't be Stupid" Okay?
Fast cars get the driver into trouble with the law because they attract expensive speeding tickets, and also get into serious accidents - often fatal.
A big penis is often known to attract Sexually Transmitted Diseases.
Try a little magick - maybe work a gentle little spell. A spell is a kind of "prayer" (if you can use that word) to the Cosmic Energy that's all around us, everyday in everyway - we just need to know how to tap into it.
Type in Free Spells and see what happens - (Do Not Pay for Spells) and ALWAYS use your own heart's desire - BE TRUE TO YOURSELF.
If you're lighting a candle you have to watch that it doesn't catch anything else on fire and make sure the flame is snuffed out cold before you leave the candle.
If you do the right spell CORRECTLY, you could wind up with more lasses that you'll know what to do with - Ha ha! Wouldn't that be a switch!?
REMEMBER - if you do a spell - NEVER tell ANYONE you did a spell, because it breaks the magick. And Yes - Spells DO work if done correctly.
Than again - maybe you should just TALK to the girl and TELL her what you 're thinking. The worst that can happen is she'll can turn up her nose at you and walk away, or she can possibly slap your face.
The positive side though - She just might see things from your perspective and you might win her after all.
Whatever you do - Do Not Disspare and Don' be stupid - there are many young ladies out there and you'll find the right one. Just be patient ,and be careful, AND a bit fussy. You sound like a respectable gentleman - you definitely want a respectable young lady.
My Yahoo! Spell Checker isn't working for me today so i apologize for any misspelt words.
P.S. It would be interesting to know what you've accomplished a year from now.
2007-10-18 09:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lucifers Child 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you may be just a little jealous. Do not despair. You'll meet someone when it is right. You are very young and not nearly ready for a physical relationship that could result in an unwanted pregnancy. You would be responsible for that child at least for the next 18 years. Imagine that? BESIDES.....
Just something to think about...
In America there is a name for it when a 19 year old guy is having a physical relationship with a girl under the age of 18 -
IT IS CALLED STATUTORY RAPE.
The younger the victim, the closer the guy comes to being a sexual deviant. In the US, if they are caught, these PERP's go to jail. After they get out of jail, they are required to register as SEX OFFENDERS.
2007-10-18 08:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you live. But, in the USA, that guy would be guilty of statutory rape (a person 18 or older cannot have sex with someone under 18 - and if they're both under 18, they have to be within 2 years of each other). So, consider yourself fortunate that, when you turn 19, you can still hit on the 15-year-olds.
2007-10-18 08:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Paul in San Diego 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19 years old and dating a 28 year old. It is the best relationship that I have ever been in. I don't think that there is anything wrong with dating older (or younger) people assuming that it isn't at the ages where it would be illegal or morally wrong.
2007-10-18 08:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What can I say? Lots of girls are stupid and shallow and want to go out the the 'cool guy' with all his toys and money. Those older guys know this and take advantage of it. They sleep with these girls and then dump them when they get tired of them and move on.
None of the girls here support you because they all do it and they like to think how smart they are. They don't go out with guys their own age because that isn't cool enough for them.
Girls wonder why guys are @ssholes? Because that's the only kind of behavior that they reward!
Not everybody is like this, but enough are to be a bit depressing. Just live your own life and keep an eye out for that special girl who can appreciate you for who you are.
2007-10-18 16:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. If the girl likes older guys let her figure out on her own it's not the best choice. Go for girls who our your age and can relate to you. Fact though, teens should only go out in groups of people their own age for dates and not alone or with a person more than two years older.
2007-10-18 08:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by Meghan H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was 15 and had a 30 year old boyfriend, i was at college and all my friends were older ( i was the youngest in the class by a good few years) the guy didn't have a clue, when i told him my age the guy freaked and wouldn't talk to me - he was a good man and i was a daft wee girl who couldv'e got him into a sh*t load of trouble, don't always blame the guy!!!
2007-10-22 07:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by Gemz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance is 5 years older then me. Alot of girls like older guys because, they are kinda on the same level. Guys mature slower then girls do. So its typical for a 15 year old to like someone who is older. Dont sweat it, just find someone else.
2007-10-19 04:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by bella_babe_86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's bs, 16 and 19 is not borderline pedophilia. That is the most ridicolous thing I have ever heard.
In states with an aoc of sixteen it's even legal.
2007-10-18 09:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋