If women hate doormat men so much why do they spend so much energy trying to break us to their will?

Question

or are tehy just trying to get us to spank them? I kid I kid..

asked this yesterday but nobody on..

Answer 1

Spanking couldn't hurt... Try that.

Answer 2

Because women do not make sense. Men are more logical. If they want something, they will take a direct approach. Women, however, do not know what they want, and even if they think they do, they often do not know how to go about getting it. What does a woman do when she wants you to do something around the house? Nag, nag, nag. Even though she knows that nagging annoys you and causes you to resist and ignore her because of it. When the nagging doesn't work, what will she do next? Personally assault your sex life by cutting you off. This is even less logical because she is punishing herself also.

Men do not function this way. They ask for whatever it is that they want. If they are told no, they will question why and discuss until a reasonable resolution is made (if possible).

Women would rather play games. And worst of all, even if they do get what they want, they will never be happy or satisfied. You give them one thing, then they will simply move onto something else that they want. They continue this cycle until they have no further use for you.

Why? Because you have taught the woman that you are a tool to be used for her desires. You have taught her that your existence in her life is to cater to her moods by always listening, caring, and being a friend. You have taught her that you exist in her life to fix things that are broken, to pay for things she wants, and to reward her with gifts for nearly every possible holiday.

Everyone likes free stuff. Everyone likes friendship and companionship. Everyone likes being able to turn to someone else for help. But turning yourself into this person for a woman who claims to want just that will usually not be enough to satisfy her.

Women are attracted to strength and confidence. If you change every which way a woman tries to change you, she will grow to view you as weak and possibly even resent you for it. A woman needs to see that you are strong and can stand your ground. A woman needs to see that you may cater to her desires and change your mind on things out of necessity and realizing it is the right thing to do -not because she has persuaded you with cuteness. She needs to know that you will sometimes not be swayed no matter what she says or does. It is a reminder to her that you make decisions yourself and are confident in your ability to do so.

Fail to stand your ground, and you will become a doormat. She will walk all over you and hate you for being weak.

Answer 3

Women like control

Answer 4

we don't want a doormat for a man.. as a matter of fact the one i have when we first got together his ex was so bad that he would not even tell me what he wanted for dinner because he did not know if it would make me mad.. it took 3 years to get him to voice his opions

Answer 5

It's a woman's nature to try to dominate her man. She uses her feminine guile to control him. A wise man knows this. He therefore keeps his woman under subjection and only allows her to go so far. Once she oversteps her bounds, he pushes her back in line. Neither does he use any physical force to do this.

Answer 6

A relationship will remain a contest of wills until one or both of the parties are buried in the ground. Even after that they will fight to see who can decompose fastest.

Answer 7

Just because you have been 'broke' does not mean you have to be a doormat.

Answer 8

Its a test of endurance.
They want to know who in the long run is stronger.

Answer 9

"Silly, silly torcherus games Jake." "They know their **** ,and they enjoy pumping us up."- Farmer Ted telling Jake Ryan about that way women act.

Sixteen Candles

Answer 10

Because they crave balance between the two