2007-10-18 07:49:43 · 20 answers · asked by Sue B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you dont get a card at all. if it's your wife or husband you just go to the grave together and grieve.
2007-10-18 08:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sarahz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off - this person could be getting a card for his/her HUSBAND/WIFE and it could be HIM/HER who also lost a baby....you people jump to assumptions too fast.
If this is your spouse and you think she would like a card, then get her a card and write something like "Hang in there my love, we can make it through this. I love you"
If this is someone else..I think I would probably just call that person and see how they are doing on that day, rather than send a card. A card would be akward in this situation, unless you know FOR SURE that the person would really really like a card..then you could write something like "I am thinking about you today, and wanted you to know that I am always here if you need to talk or just have someone to sit with."
2007-10-18 08:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by SisterSue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The loss of a child has to be something like a 75th birthday. It's something you would rather not be reminded of.
I can't think of any card that would be appropriate.
If you cannot simply do nothing, send flowers with a note that says "thinking of you".
2007-10-18 09:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by nevit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can go online for quotes and find one that suits you because it depends upon whether the family is religious or not, or what religion they are, and so on. If this is a relative, and you have pictures of the baby, you could go to memory-of.com and establish a memorial to the child and simply say on the card that a memorial has been set up at that site to remember their loss.and they will have a site to light candles for the baby and so on.
2007-10-18 08:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get a card at all. If the person who lost the baby brings it up, be supportive, but don't mark the occasion with any gifts or anything.
2007-10-18 08:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, that was a horrible time in someones life. Why would you want to remind them, I am sure they will be thinking of it all day. Maybe you could just say if they needed to talk you would be there but I don't think a card is a good idea.
2007-10-18 07:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Buggy Jean 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you get a card commemorating the loss of a baby?
2007-10-18 15:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I may not do the card thing... If anything I would definitely recognize the day and make sure that you do it respectfully. Maybe even throw in some flowers, or have the flowers sent to the grave site for her.
2007-10-18 07:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, are we suppose to "celebrate" the death of a baby? i know i wouldnt what to recieve an im sorry card in the mail, every day would be a constant reminder, never mind getting card from someone. thats just a personal feeling, sorry
2007-10-18 07:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by louie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of a card, make a call and invite the mom to lunch or something. If she wants to talk about it - fine - but it is HER choice. A card is tacky for the anniverary of a death!
2007-10-18 07:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by that judi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chuffed Anniversary Darling/eye-catching/Asshole. This previous 3 hundred and sixty 5 days has been the main joyous/finest/crappiest time of my existence. you relatively finished me/turn me on/annoy me. i'm hoping that our next 3 hundred and sixty 5 days at the same time would be in simple terms as particular/adventurous/no longer uncomplicated as this one. Love/Love/Hate, YourNameHere
2016-10-04 02:38:45 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋