i feel alone?

Question

sometimes i feel alone, i keep everything to myself, simply i have my own kingdom inside myself, i like to much too have a true friend to tell him all what i feel. sometimes i open my mouth to talk then i change my mind.even my mother i do not tell her everything , and about my friends i make my best to help them and listen to them and i show them my good feelings towards them , but i did not have a one that can listen to me , i always think that nobody would like to listen to me.you know, even the girl that i liked in universty i did not be brave to tell her that ,smiply i kept that to myself!! please anybody can tell me what to do?

Answer 1

I am glad I saw your question. I was exactly the same as you before. I have my own kingdom, and I wrote journals to express my feelings, I have my own thoughts which are very different from others I think; and I watch cartoon which I thought is the best way to express my feelings. I was always be there for my friends and people. I keep sad and lonely feelings to myself. I am glad I can answer this question for you because I was so similiar with you.
Until last year, I got a serious car accident, I got run-over by a five people size car, I was lucky that I am still healthy after this horrible nightmare. I was like usually as before except my mind.
Think about this, how weak a life is. I truely believe that every person has his/her values. You feel lonely that your friends would not listen to you. maybe you just need to be a little bit selfish about yourself. Talk to them, try them, if they do not want to listen, well too bad, they are not your true friends. A true friends would like to listen to you whether or not he/she can help you but they would listen and give you a hug. Your friends may want to listen to you and you did not give them a chance. The things is that if you keep giving supports to others and do not tell your feelings, Wouldn't they think that you do not need a listener, you can handle your own staff. Be open, be yourself. Like I said, if your friends do not listen, I am sorry, they are not your true friends, try them.
And on the other hand, I treat my special feelings as a present, I am not sure about you. I won't not lose it. Keep it up buddy. You will find someone in your life that really listens to you.

Answer 2

I think that maybe you haven't found someone that you feel you can tell everything to. Not even everything but just enough to get stuff off your chest. I think that your mom would be a good place to start. I know the older I got the more I realized that my mom knows most things in life. Lol, crazy but true. Everything she ever told me to do or not to do was because she knew her sh**. Maybe you'll feel better opening up to her just a little at a time. Tell her a few things to see her reaction then if it's cool just keep at it over time. If you can't talk to her then maybe an old friend. Let them know that you've always been there for them and all along you've been wanting to talk to them but couldn't find the words. That person will understand and will WANT to listen. Sh**, I wish I knew you cuz I'd listen. Good luck!

Answer 3

The only way you are going to get over this is to step up to the plate and start introducing yourself with confidence. Women like men that are confident not cocky. You sound like a real nice guy and all its going to take is opening up. You will be surprised how much response you will get if you just start talking to other people. Even a simple hi how are you will open the door for many conversations to come. I know you can do this and remember that you are as good as you think you are. If you think good of yourself so will others and things will get alot easier.

Answer 4

If your friends can talk to you, why don't you
trust them enough to talk to them?
They trusted you didn't they? You insult them
by not returning their trust.
Find the 'brave` to open up. You'll be surprised
at how much that will help.
I bet you think you're different from everybody else.
I also bet you will find that your friends deal with the
same things you do.

That " I keep everything to myself " bit is really
unhealthy, and can get you seriously out of synch
if you let it go on. Join the human race.

Answer 5

im kinda like you too but for me it all had to do with being shy and the only thing i can think of to help would be to talk to more people and be more open i mean you dont have to share like your deepest feelings or anything but maybe just have more opinions and comments when you hang around friends and people.