im 17 and will graduate b4 i have the kid but shes controlling and will hit the fan and i dont know how he can tell his mom without her killing us? ill be 18 jan yea were young and hes 19 but how can we tell her?
2007-10-18 07:34:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sorry to be blunt, but if he's man enough to get you pregnant, he needs to be man enough to stand up to his mommy. Perhaps she will give you and him the respect you deserve as adults when you start acting like adults - and the first step is to own up to your decisions. You had sex, you got pregnant, now deal. Go see her together. And if she "hits the fan", tell her "it would be nice to have your support, but if you're not willing to be there, that's too bad." And then get up and leave. If you allow yourselves to be controlled, you will be controlled. Good luck to you both.
2007-10-18 07:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by denali3004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He says"Mom, I need to tell you something. My girlfriend and I are having a baby". Just make sure that you have your plans on how you both will be able to take care of this child and support it. Most likely she will be angry if she thinks she will get stuck with it or it will cost her something. She also may be upset because she feels that both of you will be limiting your careers and education. If you two are mature enough to have a solid plan worked out I'll bet she will be supportive. After all how can you not love a new baby
2007-10-18 07:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by Diane M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Mom, I would want him to come to me and be honest. I certainly would not want him to tell me he has made a "mistake" as that would as that would tell me he really doesn't want this child, and has no respect for his girlfriend either. I would want him to come to me and say "Mom, I know you are going to be disappointed in me when I tell you this, and I haven't done this to hurt you or anyone else, but so and so and I have had sex and she is now pregnant, and I want to step up to the plate and be responsible".
2007-10-18 07:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Diane B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just needs to be a man and tell her, its his mom and he needs to get over he being controlling especially if he is 19.
2007-10-18 07:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
haha we had a hard time telling our parents and we're 22 and 25. i hinted around first so it didnt sound so blunt. for a few days i was saying how weird i felt and it was probaly pms. then when i ended up missing my period i let that be known. then my mom told me to go take a test and she was prepared by then, so it wasnt as bad as just coming straight out and scaring the hell out of her. good luck!
2007-10-18 07:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Rileysmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 16 and pregnant with my first child. But You honestly have to get it over with and Just sit her down and tell her You have some new's to tell her! and tell her Your pregnant. Its gonna feel imposible!! but i did it, well i had to tell my own because i told my bfs mom and she bought me a test =] hope all goes well!!
2007-10-18 07:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy&wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, he is 19, is not that he is 14 or 16!!!!! if she freaks out it will be for a couple of days, but in the short run she is going to have to admit it and support you guys!!!!!! life is just like that..... just call 911 if she passes out! lol
2007-10-18 07:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, she'll get over it eventually. There's no way to tell that's easy, she'll be mad at first but by the time the baby is here she'll have gotten over it and will love her grandchild.
2007-10-18 07:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by ME 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and tell her. She may be mad at first but she will get over it eventually, especially once her grandchild is born.
2007-10-18 07:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by TxsMama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should tell her he knows he made a mistake but is going to step up and try to be a good parent.
2007-10-18 07:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by shipwreck 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋