Im a Cancer and he's a Gemini.......Help!!!?

Question

Ive known many Gemini and due to the whole split personalities thing Im afraid we wont mesh well. I usually work well with Scorpios and Pisces. What are the chances that we will last, and do you have any tips???

Answer 1

Just be careful not to get hurt...


Here’s what you need to do to GET & KEEP a Gemini man….
Be intellectually stimulating
Be able to socialize freely with his friends
Be intriguing
Be flirtatious
Be ready to communicate via phone, emails, letters, and lastly in-person
Be prepared for (and enjoy) group outings rather than romantic dinners for two ;-)
Accept inconsistency
Accept constant change of opinion and plans
Be articulate, amusing, and witty
Be flexible
Be inquisitive and lively
Be FUN!
Appear interesting and mysterious
Have lots of hobbies and interests (preferably that don’t include him!)
Be an independent schmoozer
Get along with his friends and family
Reinvent your look as often as possible
Keep up to date on world events
Have goals
Stand up for what you believe
Continue flirting (with him and with his friends)
Keep playing and keep him guessing
Remain an enigma to him
Be spontaneous
Be understanding
Be desirable (especially to his friends)
Remain a challenge



Here’s what you can do to LOSE your Gemini man…
Be boring
Be serious and gloomy
Focus on the physical rather than intellectual
Be overly-possessive
Demand his undivided attention ALL the time
Throw a fit every time he invites his friends to join you for dinner
Expect constant honesty
Anticipate unwavering fidelity
Be intellectually un-stimulating
Insist on consistent behavior
Let him read you like an open book
Be emotionally clingy
Be predictable
Make your life revolve totally around him
Demand passionate expression of his love
Share all your secrets with him
Drop your hobbies
Dissolve your friendships
Don’t get along with his family and friends
Stay by his side during parties and other social gatherings

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Answer 2

Cancer and Gemini

The vortex of energy that your sparkling Gemini lover created around you was no doubt what initially attracted you to them. You'll love Geminis' ease in social situations, the many friends and contacts they'll bring your way, their curiosity, and articulate, lively conversation skills. Gemini are on top of everything new and current. But can you sustain the attraction?

Cancers thrive on togetherness, closeness, and strong emotions. Gemini, on the other hand, are cool, detached and elusive. You are sympathetic and compassionate, while they remain objective and somewhat distant, thriving on intellectual opinions rather than feelings. Geminis' initial remoteness and mystery may pose an intriguing challenge at first, but soon you will tire of the fact that they are always out of reach. True live wires, all their movements are quick, which could ultimately wear your nerves to a frazzle. A mutable sign, they are more flexible than you -- this can be an asset, for they will adjust to your varying moods quite well.

In bed, these whiz kids are verbal and witty, but your mood is often more serious and deep. They might not be able to groove on your emotional level. Gemini experience life on the surface, approaching it with a lighter touch, and are unable (or unwilling) to dig to the depths you regularly explore. Their penchant for analyzing everything -- including sex -- could seem cold, emotionally superficial, or just too much for you. They need variety and resist commitment, while you are just the opposite; you love routine and stability. The more your lover resists your possessiveness, the more clingy and needy you will become, so be aware of this.

Your lover has an adventurous spirit. Let him or her use it to get you out of your shell. In turn, increase your Gemini's emotional spectrum by showing him or her how to be at once vulnerable and safe with you. This relationship can work if you are aware of your differences, and are willing to work them out.

Answer 3

Okay, if you're really concerned you can pay to get you charts compared for compatibility by a reputable astrologer. Usually Gemini and Cancer are not compatible if the sun signs in your charts dominate, but it depends on the positions of all the other planets as well.
I know I will probably get a lot of thumbs down for this, but you either want to use astrology or you don't, if you do, get it done properly, if you don't, ignore it, and the best of luck, as your first answer suggested. There are no quick answers from tabloid type astrology.

Answer 4

As a Cancer who used to have an on again off again relationship with a Gemini, all I can say is communicate!!!!
i don't expect you to have my the same relationship we had, so no need for me to go into my details with him. Just make sure the two of you aren't playing games and really talk to each other about what you want from each other. You can make it work.

Answer 5

RUN!!!!!!
there are 6 people in this relationship.......the geminis twins and 4 cnacer moon phases......so, you will never know who you are dealing with!
besides the fact that geminis (esp the males) LIE, LIE , LIE.......it is just easier for them to do so........
cheaters........need that stimulation from NEW sources all the time......
sorry, but this will NEVER work ..no matter how hard you try.....
you are subserviant......he is DOMINANT..and controlling.....
move on......and fast....

Answer 6

my friend all can i tell its go for it if you like him and if he like you go for it i am a gemini female and i am in love with a cancer male and i can tell you that i've been with a cancer before it was a good relationship but i end because of a personal reason but we can go together very well so go for it i will too good luck

Answer 7

Just try to work with it. I am a gemini and I am dating a gemini and we are not suppose to work. SO everyone says but we are and its great so just work with it and if its meant to be then its meant to be

Answer 8

its a horrible match...theyre flighty and many times too immature. Alot of compromise would be needed but they wont pay great attention...YOU NEED PISCES FOR that.

Answer 9

Forget the horoscope and just go with it.